I'm currently planning for a messy session coming up in March. The details aren't all set yet, but the concept would be showing up to the session in normal clothing wearing a backpack containing additional outfits. The outfits in the bag should be of a most humiliating nature. At the beginning of the session I will be thoroughly pied wearing the normal clothes I showed up in, and then change into one of the humiliating outfits to be further pied and messed up. At the end, when it is time to go home, I will only be left with another humiliating outfit. This outfit will be worn out of the session, in public, and through a hotel lobby.
I've been taking suggestions on both Instagram and Twitter (both @87keithc). Several great concepts have been suggested. Creative ideas have been submitted such as wearing messy clothes to leave (although this does present some logistics issues even though I absolutely love this idea).
Again, this will be worn in public, so nothing too revealing can be accepted for consideration. What are your thoughts? How could I be at my most humiliated state after being completely trashed?
I would LOVE to hear your input. After all suggestions have been submitted, given it more thought, and given the mess mastermind opportunity to collaborate and provide his input there will likely be a voting process.
KeithC_ said: this will be worn in public [...] How could I be at my most humiliated state
I don't recommend involving the general public in your kink. Wear whatever you like (or whatever your kink partner likes) in your hotel room, but the moment you're getting off on wearing something humiliating in a public setting, you're involving non-consenting individuals in your fetish activity without them being aware of it or having any say in the matter.
KeithC_ said: this will be worn in public [...] How could I be at my most humiliated state
I don't recommend involving the general public in your kink. Wear whatever you like (or whatever your kink partner likes) in your hotel room, but the moment you're getting off on wearing something humiliating in a public setting, you're involving non-consenting individuals in your fetish activity without them being aware of it or having any say in the matter.
I appreciate the input, but I don't necessarily agree with your evaluation. There are so many instances of people especially members of this very community who wear clothing in public specifically because they find the clothing to be a turn on and being seen in it is sexy to them. Boots, sneakers, trackies, soccer/football kit, rainwear, etc. The act of wearing that garment is often a rush for the person who has a fetish for it. This does not mean that they are involving the general public in their fetish simply by wearing it.
The same can be said for pride events harnesses, rubber, PVC, singlets, etc are commonplace in these events that are commingled with the public.
Also many people take public dares a great example is wearing wellies filled with slop in public. I don't feel that this constitutes a violation on the general public in any way.
Other classic examples that are seen in this community: joining a sports league whose outfits are fetishized in private, jumping in a pool/lake/river with people present, walking in the rain, going to sporting events, participating in a mud run, and the list goes on.
Asking someone to perform a task (such as pieing for example) and be actively involved is a slightly different scenario, in my opinion and I'd be more receptive to that conversation although not necessarily in agreement. However, I truly do not feel the simple act of wearing a non-vulgar and non-revealing outfit could be called into ethical question.
KeithC_ said: I'm currently planning for a messy session coming up in March. The details aren't all set yet, but the concept would be showing up to the session in normal clothing wearing a backpack containing additional outfits. The outfits in the bag should be of a most humiliating nature. At the beginning of the session I will be thoroughly pied wearing the normal clothes I showed up in, and then change into one of the humiliating outfits to be further pied and messed up. At the end, when it is time to go home, I will only be left with another humiliating outfit. This outfit will be worn out of the session, in public, and through a hotel lobby.
I've been taking suggestions on both Instagram and Twitter (both @87keithc). Several great concepts have been suggested. Creative ideas have been submitted such as wearing messy clothes to leave (although this does present some logistics issues even though I absolutely love this idea).
Again, this will be worn in public, so nothing too revealing can be accepted for consideration. What are your thoughts? How could I be at my most humiliated state after being completely trashed?
I would LOVE to hear your input. After all suggestions have been submitted, given it more thought, and given the mess mastermind opportunity to collaborate and provide his input there will likely be a voting process.
Dream up your worst.
PLEASE wear a puffer jacket! What would make it even better, is if after/during its messy session, the jacket gets completely destroyed, or at least a few slashes here and there. I have added some photos so you know what I mean
KeithC_ said: I'm currently planning for a messy session coming up in March. The details aren't all set yet, but the concept would be showing up to the session in normal clothing wearing a backpack containing additional outfits. The outfits in the bag should be of a most humiliating nature. At the beginning of the session I will be thoroughly pied wearing the normal clothes I showed up in, and then change into one of the humiliating outfits to be further pied and messed up. At the end, when it is time to go home, I will only be left with another humiliating outfit. This outfit will be worn out of the session, in public, and through a hotel lobby.
I've been taking suggestions on both Instagram and Twitter (both @87keithc). Several great concepts have been suggested. Creative ideas have been submitted such as wearing messy clothes to leave (although this does present some logistics issues even though I absolutely love this idea).
Again, this will be worn in public, so nothing too revealing can be accepted for consideration. What are your thoughts? How could I be at my most humiliated state after being completely trashed?
I would LOVE to hear your input. After all suggestions have been submitted, given it more thought, and given the mess mastermind opportunity to collaborate and provide his input there will likely be a voting process.
Dream up your worst.
PLEASE wear a puffer jacket! What would make it even better, is if after/during its messy session, the jacket gets completely destroyed, or at least a few slashes here and there. I have added some photos so you know what I mean