Is it just me but my wetlook life has not just been about the look and feel of wet clothes but a lot of pleasure is gained risking ruining stuff deliberately, my wife would often risk her expensive clothes and accessories rather than unwanted stuff that didn't matter if wet or even muddy , she would buy a new pair of boots and virtually straight out of the box put them on with smart clothes and get in the bath with me to enjoy the whole outfit soaking wet and soapy . We both got very turned on by this and most time they would dry out ok , neither of us cared if they did get spoilt and after repeated abuse they were ruined ! Whilst she rarely wore items like leather skirts in public we had several for private wettings, most enjoyable to see her just slide in the bath ( we had a huge corner bath ) in a leather skirt, boots and blouse , even a smart jacket quite often , I wore suits , shoes, uniforms - such fun not caring what got spoilt ! Just wondering if any others have same feelings with sploshing fun .
Maturesplosh said: Is it just me but my wetlook life has not just been about the look and feel of wet clothes but a lot of pleasure is gained risking ruining stuff deliberately, my wife would often risk her expensive clothes and accessories rather than unwanted stuff that didn't matter if wet or even muddy , she would buy a new pair of boots and virtually straight out of the box put them on with smart clothes and get in the bath with me to enjoy the whole outfit soaking wet and soapy . We both got very turned on by this and most time they would dry out ok , neither of us cared if they did get spoilt and after repeated abuse they were ruined ! Whilst she rarely wore items like leather skirts in public we had several for private wettings, most enjoyable to see her just slide in the bath ( we had a huge corner bath ) in a leather skirt, boots and blouse , even a smart jacket quite often , I wore suits , shoes, uniforms - such fun not caring what got spoilt ! Just wondering if any others have same feelings with sploshing fun .
Thanks for sharing this story. The thought of ruining clothing and accessories doesn't do anything extra for me personally but I'm seriously enjoying the thought of the wifey sliding into the tub wearing a leather miniskirt, boots, blouse and jacket.
That is my main enjoyment from WAM. I prefer messy but enjoy wet as well. Messy definitely destroys things and scissors finish the job off. Here is an outfit going from new to old including all the extras. This is part two of a longer film https://vimeo.com/459265936 Password is Davina
My girlfriend is the same - regarding clothes just for getting wet.
She's worn a dress in the shower several times. I think she's worn a maxi dress out for something prior to the shower once, and that was for a dinner date on a like one of the first warm nights of the year and she didn't feel like shaving her legs so she threw it on.
I'm semi conflicted right now because she's openly encouraged me to buy me more dresses for her to wear for sex/ in the shower, doesn't really feel like they work for her in public- which I totally respect, just that part of the appeal for me is her getting wet in a dress that she would wear in public.
Thanks for replies , interesting comments. We still do wet stuff when we feel like it and it better than Viagra , no problems getting hard and we most times end up with good sex, whatever it is with wam does the job of harmless fun we all need.
I have an amazing wife, we'd not been together long, and she started being a bit of a DOM, so naturally I introduced messy fun, resulting in me being tied to a chair and pied, covered in all sorted of mess, and often clothes ripped and in the bin. She has one rule, nothing is off limits to me, I've bought suits for a party, only to be dragged into the shower with everything on, shirt ripped etc, suit in the bin. I've bought new items and when in the shop, she's made comments while paying, like, "let's see how long it lasts" or "you'll never keep it clean"
Often she'll stuff sissy, satin pants in my hand, tell me to put them on, which often ends up with whatever I'm wearing soaked, and ripped, belts, shoes, socks, pants, suits, the lot, once wet, she doesn't hold back .
Seems others enjoy ruining clothes or potentially ruining them that certainly adds to the fun and pleasures . One couple I met on here a few years ago often bought stuff to get wet and messy in from car boot sales and charity shops cheap so it just didn't matter which is where we started out but found extra excitement in wearing good clothes and the intrigue of not knowing if they would dry out ok . One funny incident was we had been out to dinner one night , came in, I filled the bath and we got in just as dressed , wife had smart brown newish knee boots , tights, skirt blouse and white jacket , me in shoes, trousers and sports jacket.wevhadca good Tim and had sex still in our wet gear , hung it all up to drop dry over the bath - next morning her mother dropped in early and went to bathroom and we had forgotten all our wet stuff over the bath !! She obviously mentioned why it was all there and we made a limp excuse about accidently falling in the bath , her mother I think realised we had been a bit kinky and said no more but who cares really, it harms no one.
Ruining clean perfectly new condition clothes has always added an extra turn on excitement for both a wet look or a gunge mess. Especially when there is a little build up before in the set up where you can see it coming next shortly, then some really nice clothing gets it & then the audience is left worried and wondering if the clothes were saved in time to be able to be cleaned as good as new after or totally waisted as they get neglected and left soaking in a dripping mess. Especially if it is a nice one of a kind item item that is hot and one really likes and wish you could have but can't find one for your self since it is so rare to find. Then watching it get intentionally carelessly waisted with casual disregard adds a special extra exsilleration. Shinny clothes getting waisted with contrasting colors make some of the best gungeing scenes. That's why I bring that to my videos, enjoy as much as I do .
We are also more on the "getting your good clothes all soaked and messy" side. It certainly adds to it not knowing if the clothes will survive. We often end up in the tub or shower after a nice dinner or night out, still dressed up with shoes and all. Most is fine for wearing again, but there are some nice things that were definitely ruined. My Louboutin heels, some woolen or leather dresses, hubby's suits or jackets. And I lost countless hosiery because they were ripped open
For myself, I try and preserve my clothing, shoes and accessories as best I can after a soak.
Most of my transgressions happen spontaneously such as after work or coming home from an outing, so it's very common for my work or daily outfits getting drenched on the fly, and I feel a strong urge to soak everything I am wearing and carrying at that moment. This can lead to something expensive or an item fragile to water getting a good soak, and I end up having to either take the time and effort to care for it delicately during the drying period, or just throw in the towel and toss the ultimately ruined item.
In general the contents of my bags take the brunt of the abuse, and it's always a chore to dry and restore all the little bits and pieces I keep in my handbags or my briefcase, but the thrill I get being so reckless when I decide to soak always overrides my logic. Shoes and bags take a fair bit of gentle care, and clothes vary, but dry cleaners can fix allot of things. Not always of course. I want to wear my favourite fashions again and again if I can!
That said I've had plenty of clothing or shoes that ended up ruined, usually after several sessions though. It's a mixed feeling to toss a favourite pair of heels, or stylish handbag, or an expensive dress, but such is life when you are an unabashed lover of water...
CathyRendon said: For myself, I try and preserve my clothing, shoes and accessories as best I can after a soak.
Most of my transgressions happen spontaneously such as after work or coming home from an outing, so it's very common for my work or daily outfits getting drenched on the fly, and I feel a strong urge to soak everything I am wearing and carrying at that moment. This can lead to something expensive or an item fragile to water getting a good soak, and I end up having to either take the time and effort to care for it delicately during the drying period, or just throw in the towel and toss the ultimately ruined item.
In general the contents of my bags take the brunt of the abuse, and it's always a chore to dry and restore all the little bits and pieces I keep in my handbags or my briefcase, but the thrill I get being so reckless when I decide to soak always overrides my logic. Shoes and bags take a fair bit of gentle care, and clothes vary, but dry cleaners can fix allot of things. Not always of course. I want to wear my favourite fashions again and again if I can!
That said I've had plenty of clothing or shoes that ended up ruined, usually after several sessions though. It's a mixed feeling to toss a favourite pair of heels, or stylish handbag, or an expensive dress, but such is life when you are an unabashed lover of water...
Yes, it's expensive, and I'm sure it comes with mixed emotions, but it sure looks so decadent and relaxing, just walk though the door and get in the bath, love it.
I enjoy getting wet in leather, which while it doesn't necessarily ruin it, it is just rarely the same again. Most of the items I use, I get cheaply from ebay or Vinted and they were bought specifically for the purpose. But sometimes, it is quite exciting to use something that was bought for normal use. Risking ruining something that was more expensive and that was not purchased with the intention of getting wet, provides a heightened level of excitement.Well, for me anyway.
Many interesting replies and experiences here . Some talk of leather and suede the certainly is fun to get wet although we found the dye in leather jackets or skirts stained the bath and ourselves but who cares if it feels good. Suede is great to get wet , my wife had a few pairs of suede knee boots , her brown ones went shiny black when soaking wet that I loved seeing and touching - she went in a small swimming pool at a hotel in Dorset in them on one occasion after we had dinner there , her boots and matching suede skirt went waist deep before she was told to leave the pool by a jobs worth man who worked there saying clothes in pool not allowed ! We ended up in the shower in our hotel room to finish the job off but the pool was more fun in truth.
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For me the main turn on is getting wet in something no one would normally get wet. It took a while for my wife to come to accept it, she would only soak old clothes she would never wear again and would turn the shower off if I tried to join her in a suit. Over time however she has become more adventurous, even to the point of once coming home in her best suit after an interview and jumping straight into the shower and absolutely drenching it. She has also become keen on soaking me whenever I am smartly dressed. If she is in the shower when I leave for work, giving her a kiss goodbye usually results in me being pulled in for soaking. Many times I have been late for work.
Recently I had an online interview so dressed in a suit when I got up. I got the time wrong and it was in the afternoon not the morning. As soon as my wife heard that, she marched me to the shower, pushed me in and went to work with the shower head. I changed into my best suit just before the interview, thinking she had got it out of her system. As soon as the interview was over she said "that was tough, you need a nice warm shower to relax". Suit, tie, shirt. All expensive, all saturated. Surprisingly, very few of our suits have been so ruined that careful drying or a trip to the dry cleaners couldn't sort things out
Those of you who have seen some of my photos you will see from some comments my wife has multiple versions of the same jackets. I prefer her to wear older jackets for wet/messy fun but sometimes she gets extra turned on by being "naughty" so she will wear a new one and get it wet by going in bath/shower and even a lake/river. Mostly the jackets will be absolutely fine as long as they are given a light iron when dry. But any imperfections i will buy a new replacement so she can wear it for work/out in public. The shiny shorts by the way, survive ALL soakings/mess. The only thing about the shorts is the stitching comes away from the stripes eventually.