I've finally decided to post on here although there isn't much for me to say so I will just say hello to all and introduce myself a little,I'm a wam/sploshing virgin and a virgin sexually I only recently excepted my kinks and fetishes as being part of me but I knew from a young age that wam/sploshing was a thing for me and believed myself to be weird for it. Eventually I discovered I wasn't alone in liking/loving it and discovered umd,I have spoken to other wammers/sploshers on fetlife about trying to experience wam/sploshing for the first time but I've yet to actually do it,sooner or later I will try it and i just hope it feels as good as it looks.
That's good to hear,like a lot people on here I grew up watching tv and films etc and always found myself fascinated by situations involving people getting messy.
Cowardlysub said: I've finally decided to post on here although there isn't much for me to say so I will just say hello to all and introduce myself a little,I'm a wam/sploshing virgin and a virgin sexually I only recently excepted my kinks and fetishes as being part of me but I knew from a young age that wam/sploshing was a thing for me and believed myself to be weird for it. Eventually I discovered I wasn't alone in liking/loving it and discovered umd,I have spoken to other wammers/sploshers on fetlife about trying to experience wam/sploshing for the first time but I've yet to actually do it,sooner or later I will try it and i just hope it feels as good as it looks.
wamloving said: Welcome! I am trying to be more active myself. Getting messy does feel as good as it looks, you have to find an opportunity to try it.
Yeah its difficult finding the time and privacy with other people living with me who aren't aware of my kinks and fetishes,the other thing I find intimidating is the idea of getting supplies from say a supermarket and people looking at me with suspicion,suggestions were made on fetlife as regards what to try that's easy to find/get and also easy to clean up.
We just blame it on the grand kids when we buy slime supplies . Some experiment they are doing. . At our age we just have fun with the comments and laugh.
Self checkout is a good shout although I think purchasing from multiple stores is the most discreet,I'm comfortable with my fetishes and kinks now but my not keen for others to know,only 1 person I'm friends with even knows I have kinks so I'm still pretty much in the kink closet.
Cowardlysub said: Self checkout is a good shout although I think purchasing from multiple stores is the most discreet,I'm comfortable with my fetishes and kinks now but my not keen for others to know,only 1 person I'm friends with even knows I have kinks so I'm still pretty much in the kink closet.
You can also buy some items via Amazon if your a prime member and have them delivered to you if thats any eaiser for you.
Haha thank you,I've been quiet on here for to long,I joined months ago but just said nothing and I've been visiting this page for years,now I'm out of the wam closet (sort of) the next step is take actually try it myself rather than just watch others do it.
piedbehind said: Welcome out. My first advice is to get laid, without the fetish involved. With or without love involved. Pay if needed. While it's not as amazing and fantastic as many people make it out to be, it is better than no sex, and you need to know this first hand and have the experience for any future relationships. Skill increases with practice, which benefits all concerned.
Second pie yourself in the bathroom or wherever. Again it's not as great as it's built up to be in your head, but it's better than not having done it.
Eventually you can combine these things.
I've never been interested in sex without an emotional connection so the idea of going out and just having sex isnt an option,I will participate in wam/sploshing on my own first obviously the good thing with this fetish is it can be fun alone or with others.
Turns out even people on fetlife judge wam/sploshing harshly,a conversation I started on there ended up with me getting a message saying about wam/splashing and how it puts women off,I'm pretty sure some women on here might have something to say about that.