This video was created a month after the chocolate covered Susan video. After showing her a few WAM videos she got some ideas in her head and wanted to give it a go. I asked if we could video it and she said YES. There was no script I just gave her supplies and let her do what felt best to her. After the camera cuts off I joined in. We had more pudding we set aside to cover me in and we had some sloppy sex. Fuckin in that shower stall is not even remotely easy when covered in slippery chocolate. That was the one and only time. After a little bit of talking to her about the footage and making the store to help support our future WAM sessions she agreed it would be a good idea. We opened the store to keep the fun going on the cheap. This was the first video.
I'm in love. Seriously, it's great to see how much pleasure it is for her to mess around and that it's not scripted as well. You both, please stay this way!
Pretty frustrating to see this thread sink so low when I'm basically giving away hot amateur material... Something you don't see often here. She is reconsidering whether its worth releasing the rest. Today she asked me excitedly "What are people saying about the last video!?" And I have to tell her... "well not much really"... So Susan's luke warm about it.. getting almost no feedback has turned her off on the situation and at the end of the day its her body in those videos. Her call.
MessyAnt said: Pretty frustrating to see this thread sink so low when I'm basically giving away hot amateur material... Something you don't see often here. She is reconsidering whether its worth releasing the rest. Today she asked me excitedly "What are people saying about the last video!?" And I have to tell her... "well not much really"... So Susan's luke warm about it.. getting almost no feedback has turned her off on the situation and at the end of the day its her body in those videos. Her call.
Hi, Ant, The internet is a fickle whore. Sadly, there's little correlation between vocal supporters and great content. There's only a minority of UMD users who chime in on threads, a handful, really, of the overall # of folks who frequent this place. (I'm guilty myself, rarely taking the time to actually participate even on content I think is awesome whereas my significant other, Mrs. Bee, was a much more "active" member. Different temperaments, I suppose.)
What I'm trying to say is: you're great, these pics are great (hot), Susan is great. It's gutsy to be putting yourself out there and chalk this up more to old-fashioned human laziness or the fact that many with the fetish prefer to be distant admirers.
MessyAnt said: Pretty frustrating to see this thread sink so low when I'm basically giving away hot amateur material... Something you don't see often here. She is reconsidering whether its worth releasing the rest. Today she asked me excitedly "What are people saying about the last video!?" And I have to tell her... "well not much really"... So Susan's luke warm about it.. getting almost no feedback has turned her off on the situation and at the end of the day its her body in those videos. Her call.
I meant to post after watching -- i thought it was pretty mindblowingly sexy, for what it's worth. She looks and sounds amazing. I loved the chocolate over the glasses, and then her rubbing it into her face. (I wish it was all pies, but i am not complaining!) Never been a "clothes fill up" fan, but watching the chocolate ripple under the outfit is great. And the pouring on/running between her butt is.......well, it's pretty goddamned great.
I hope you continue posting, and if she/you need more encouragement, i thought it was hot as fuck.
Big shipper makes a good point -- it's laziness, i think, a lot of the time.
After an hour of viewing WAM content late at night for personal use, i tend to forget to say positive/cool things, but if i'm just catching up on what's new here, seeing what the day's activity is, i definitely compliment and encourage when i see stuff that floats my boat.
I'm a bit confused... where we all meant to dance around in admiration and beg for more? :-S
I like what they did but I'm not here to make a song and dance about it :-S
Ant, if you're reading this, no offence was ever meant by any of us here but you must understand that we can't all reply to everyone who posts something... it'd consume our lives
I'm not saying I don't understand at all... I recently had content put on here. It was a big step that terrified me and I was a bit disappointed when it got 1500 views and only 2 comments... but there's no point getting upset about it... if you choose to put stuff onto the forum then you surely accept the risks of negative feedback (or in this case only limited feedback)...
It's just a shame to see someone get so upset over it that's all :-(
Laziness is it. It was extremely generous to share those really, really awesome videos, they're really hot! But please don't disappear because people aren't as vocal as they should be (this whole thing is a major reminder of how we should all show such appreciation )
It's hard to demand that people be thankful, but if they (and she) found the compliments and the likes, etc. to be part of the fun/thrill of it, I can absolutely see being disappointed.
When i find something and contribute, i used to get bummed if it didn't get much of a reaction, but the fact that 2 or 3 people will "heart" a post -- even 1 person, really - it makes it feel like it was worth it.
It's a real shame to see them go like this. It was great to see people sharing their WAM experiences (and what experiences!) for the fun of it, or so it seemed at least. I don't think they got anything but praise in return, and indeed a wammer of the day. I doubt they'll be back, but it's going to feel a bit hollow in the future if people feel like they have to post something for the sake of it, rather than just because they want to.
Like he said though, it's their stuff so fair enough, but it is a shame.
Sorry to see you go. But thanks for sharing. It was great to see pics of such a hot wam-loving couple. I can only dream of being as lucky as you and having such an amazing partner.
If your self esteem is that low that you need random strangers on the internet to praise you then you probably should seek a therapist and not waste your time looking for approval via fetish porn.
Excellent 2 video's of his wife getting messy for free, I just noticed the thread, I been busy working a lot. It's a damn shame that people don't comment on here especially a beautiful woman and free videos and pictures.
LeilaHazlett said: If your self esteem is that low that you need random strangers on the internet to praise you then you probably should seek a therapist and not waste your time looking for approval via fetish porn.
Wow. That's one of the most cynical, unfriendly things I've ever heard a producer say, certainly about a long-time forum user and contributor.
I've been in this industry for 11 years now and have seen this kind of behavior a lot with amateur models. They start modeling because they think people praising their photos will make themselves feel better about their body. If they don't get the attention they were hoping for or get negative reactions they get upset and behave childishly like this couple who suddenly decided to leave. It's not healthy for people with poor self esteem to be relying on others to make them feel good about themselves. You have to love yourself and your body regardless of how other see you. I sincerely do hope that woman gets the help she needs to feel better about herself.
Did anyone make negative comments about her body? If so, I missed them. I did wonder if something other than the concerns expressed in this thread (i.e., someone being a dick privately, or fear of being outed) caused them to pull the plug.
That said, I have to agree with Leila for the most part -- nice as it was for them to give their videos away for free, sadly, I think MessyAnt's expectations were a little unrealistic, he came off as a little needy ("Wammer of the Day" isn't exactly the Nobel Peace Prize), and it's silly for us to recriminate ourselves for not being effusive enough in our praise.
I'll spend a month doing first-hand research for an article and publish it and sometimes it'll get a handful of mildly approving comments, or none, and I'll feel deflated by the lack of attention. But I take satisfaction, and pleasure, in the work itself, or I would've quit a long time ago. It's a shame that MessyAnt wasn't able to do that. It may be better for them, if less fun for us, if they keep their wam activities private.
Leila, while I definitely do not agree with your armchair psycho-analysis, you are definitely welcome to have your own opinions. However, there was no need for you to comment on this thread just to be mean. If you don't have anything nice to say, it is sometimes best to not say anything at all.
Please think about how you would feel if people make negative comments on your photos and consider deleting your comments on this thread.
[name removed] said: I contacted MessyAnt to wish him and Susan well. He sent me this explanation:
"Susan decided to have me remove the videos because the whole fun and intriguing thing for her was of hearing peoples responses to her performance. Bad or good responses did not matter, she can take a hit, but just hearing back was something that got her excited about doing it. Things have been falling flat for us on UMD for a while... the store closing, posts and such. I came up with the idea of posting our videos to drum up some excitement for her... maybe make some more new videos we have not planned for the fun of it... but It made things worse when no one seemed to care. I showed her the statistics but she said the numbers where meaningless. Thousands of views and 3-4 posts was like whyyyy even... I think she gets off on knowing people enjoy what we have created.... so no pleasure no point...I dont blame her. And not an esteem issue because she knows it beyond pleases me and that's what matters most to her... and not what the internet thinks. (her words not mine...) .. We never once posted one of those what does UMD want to see Susan do next? We always made what got me off.. So its not like we ever cared about anyone expectations. The videos were for me but if you like them great let us know, etc, etc... I then removed my account because I dont have anything further to share with UMD anymore. I made the move in frustration but still almost week later feel like it was the right one. I'm way happier being a lurker. I left my posts as a ghost... I did have the option to delete those too but did not take it... We both rather just keep our private life private for now.."
Thanks for contacting Ant. I wanted to talk to him, but didn't have a way without his UMD account.
He was someone that I enjoyed talking with about beautiful and sexy Susan and the messes that she got into. I've loved all of the sets they've put up since they first came here.
I know other people who did pics and/or vids for themselves (each other) and put them on here just to be nice and share, and for the fun of seeing the responses that people made. Then the responses got fewer & fewer. Lots of views, and the few posts were good ones. But as Ant said in this quote that [name removed] passed on to us, eventually you say, "Why bother?"
I have a feeling that a lot of people, if they post a thoughtful response to something, or a wise-ass quip about something, watch to see what kind of response it's going to get. That's just human nature. When it goes nowhere, it kind of takes the fun out of it.
It's too bad that another poster, this time Ant & Susan, felt unnoticed enough to leave. He's still got the cute hot wife who gets messy for and with him.