I don't know about you, but I just can't "turn off" the fetish. (Believe me, sometimes I think it would be nice....)
But if you're asking if I'm ashamed and appalled by some of the behavior shown by fellow WAMmers (on public forums even)... 100% yes. Dating back 15 years or more. The name "Marty Penn" comes to mind.....
I definitely think I could take a massive step back from it. Like I say the small socially inept, lack of any moral compass members on here and the other sites are ruining it for me personally