"As women, we know that sex is about more than just sex. And yet so many of us don't talk about it. Our deepest, most intimate fears and fantasies remain locked away inside of us, until someone comes along with the key.
Here is a key. I would love to know your fantasy: the secret desire you'd share with only the most trusted of confidants. Whatever your background, whomever you do or don't sleep with, whether you're eighteen or eighty: if you identify as a woman, I want to hear from you."
Is this anonymous? Yes. Will you get paid for it? No. Will the end product be at all worthwhile? Your guess is as good as mine. But it might be fun if you're willing to give it a go. More info here: https://www.research.net/r/DearGillian
Interesting. I don't plan to submit anything but perhaps it's time for the subject to be revisited.
But for men who simply can't wait for Gillian to finish:
There is an existing series of books describing sexual fantasies (submitted by regular people) collected by Nancy Friday. It's all a bit old, but definitely steamy.
I read two on female fantasy: "My Secret Garden" and "Women On Top". But nowhere in either of these were there any mud pits, so I guess I didn't find anything reflecting me there.
Now, for the ladies on this group:
I also read her book "Men In Love". All of the male secrets are exposed there.
"As women, we know that sex is about more than just sex. And yet so many of us don't talk about it. Our deepest, most intimate fears and fantasies remain locked away inside of us, until someone comes along with the key.
Here is a key. I would love to know your fantasy: the secret desire you'd share with only the most trusted of confidants. Whatever your background, whomever you do or don't sleep with, whether you're eighteen or eighty: if you identify as a woman, I want to hear from you."
Is this anonymous? Yes. Will you get paid for it? No. Will the end product be at all worthwhile? Your guess is as good as mine. But it might be fun if you're willing to give it a go. More info here: https://www.research.net/r/DearGillian
Wow - there is yet another side 2 Ms. GA that I would have NEVER known that she had. It's just incredible how she goes from playing a Government Agent who dealt with the Supernatural and the Paranormal to psychologically delving into the World of Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies. I would have never thought that to be possible with her.
Love you, too
who dealt with the Supernatural and the Paranormal to psychologically delving into the World of Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies. I would have never thought that to be possible with her. 
