Occasionally I'll get chatting with an open minded non-wammer who wants to know more about the fetish. As this is quite a rare occurrence, if they want pictures I try to find images that both encompass what WAM is all about, but are also overtly mainstream enough to still come across as obviously sexy or sensual.

Whilst cake-sitting is my niche, I rarely show images of it to vanilla people as I feel it's a bit too full on and kinky, but the notion of simply being covered in something for a sensuous experience somehow seems more generally acceptable for viewing by semi-mainstream people.

I didn't have one of the images I normally show to hand on this device but then Messygirl was kind enough to post it in another thread. One of the best IMHO.

What images do you use to demonstrate why WAM is sexy to people outside our fetish?

Most people don't get it no matter how obvious I make it.

I had added pics from my favorate savory humiliation scenes but the new rules mean you'll have to use your imagination. I picked the most extreme ones possible of course.
Shock and awe I say.

As something of an expert in the field of cake sitting art, I typically would show them some of my colorful shots that are both beautiful and sexy at the same time. I like to produce work that a non-splosher can look at and think to themselves "why is this turning me on??!!" And that has been something that has happened quite frequently. I've actually sold many large-format prints of some of these images that non-sploshers feel comfortable displaying in their homes If you're trying to show stuff to non-wammers it's probably easiest to break them in on stuff that isn't in the humiliation range. Showing people having lots of fun, and not necessarily even being super sexual, maybe with light nudity, or hints of naughty bits being displayed, is your best bet.

Some of the scenes by TotallyGunged and MessyHot do a fantastic job of showing off the fetish while appearing (for the lack of a better phrase) "conventionally sexy"

I'm aware of at least 5 or 6 other users/producers out there who've produced scenes that might showcase well to non-wammers, but I can't remember them off the top of my head.

I agree that for most people if they're not going to be into it then showing pictures won't persuade them.

That said, I think some of Wamphotography's work could have a broad appeal as the images are mostly quite conventionally flattering and fun. I've also shown people Fetish Couple stuff as they have a good dynamic that people who are on the more mainstream kink scene could understand and appreciate.

Forever this one.

Messyonline work

Normally I emphasise the fun, rather than sexy, aspect of it, but that's recruiting models as opposed to session partners. If I did want to sell sexiness, I'd probably use images of someone drenched in golden syrup, wearing say cycling shorts and a bikini top. Syrup tends to look sexier compared to the comic look of custard. Or perhaps the old Splosh image (linked below) of the woman in the black smart suit and red silk shirt willingly having oil poured over herself. Again, oil is seen as sexy in mainstream kink, and that image has elements of willing submission, so a BDSM element. And either syrup or oil will also feel warmer in a session than other wam items tend to.

I'd probably show them some Mrs Bee material. Elegance and beauty.

It's a tough question, simply because different people are affected by different aspects of wam. Some don't feel it is a turn on but would do it 'for fun'. Others are turned on by the humiliation aspect. Some turned on by how it feels between their toes. Still others want to sit in something messy, while others want to play with someone else in some kind of messy struggle. Then there are the sensuous types who want to feel it all over their naked body, while others like the naughtiness of destroying clothes. Then, there are those who want it in their hair and over their heads, or a pie in their face. Some want it warm, some cold, some both, some savory only or sweet only, or mud only. So it's pretty hard to show someone a single photo that might appeal to them without knowing what aspects of wam they might enjoy. But to settle on one image, I'd choose something where the participant looks very happy and maybe a bit turned on at the same time. Kind of a naughty smile through a mess.

I have noticed that (in general) the more 'arty' the pic the better it is received (as erotic or sensory art) and appreciated. Also: if the picture is of a (sexually attractive) or admired celebrity (like Katy Perry). Discuss.

That 3rd image feels less fun and sexy and more We Have Such Sights To Show You

Honestly, some of the pics and models of Slapstick Stuff are the perfect intro. They can show the sexy/fun aspect that so many of us enjoy.

They're also very approachable. Mine UMD store... well girls are getting pounding out in all holes in a messy fuck fest. Not exactly first date intro material.