For the next little while, I'm going to be making a mix of videos with and without a partner. I know that some folks won't watch a self-WAM video under any circumstances, but for those that do, what makes a video stand out to you?
I know I can't be shocked like I usually am in videos with a partner, since that doesn't make a lot of sense. But is it coverage? Outfit? Visible enjoyment? Quantity of mess?
It is a good combination of several things: Your sexy, tight and shiny clothes. Your sticky pies with crust. See how you enjoy sitting on the cakes and putting pies on your face. Changing clothes makes it fun.
Something about seeing self-pours in videos doesn't quite appeal to me most of the time - most of the solo videos I enjoy start with a large container or pool of substance on the ground rather than lifting and pouring small containers. And if there's enough space to lay down and roll and wallow around a little that adds a lot for me - I like to see people on tarps or inflatable pools, or outdoors much more than in a bathtub. I feel like I manage to make my solo mudding videos look quite good, but when I've played around with gunge or food in my tiny bathroom I've never felt like the video is appealing enough to post online.
The thing I don't like about self wam is the fact that the "victim" retains control of what they are doing, so it's not really being submissive. One idea I thought of is if two people had a kind of remote competition so they could both win and lose at different times, and maybe they both sell their PoV.
For me the most important thing is coverage (specifically facial coverage) and reaction (either in disgust or excitement). I also love when the recipient tells us how messy they are or how disgusting the mess is.
I think a few ways to do a solo humiliation scene would be: 1.) You are hypnotized to mess yourself up mercilessly but you are conscious of what you are doing to yourself yet have no control 2.) You are convinced that some messy treatment of pies/gunge/miscellaneous mess is necessary either because you lost a bet or because you require a beauty treatment at a spa. I have not seen the latter being explored but would love for you to try it! You could even discover at the end that the beauty treatment is a lie, leaving you even more humiliated.
I think it's about coverage, and really enjoying it sensually. I prefer pies more than anything, so specifically with pies, I really enjoy them coming at the face nonstop with as little wipe away as possible so it really builds up.
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