So I have a question.

Are these things mutually exclusive? I would consider my 'thing' being more about getting messy. My before sensation is gunge/slime. I've never really considered the'wet' side of things.

For example I see that people enjoy taking a bath with clothes on.

I have a free night tonight, and purely for the convenience side of things, (no clear up), this might be something to explore.

Is there anyone here who might be able to sell it to me?

Thanks in advance

(I've also posted this on the wet forum too)

I suppose they can be mutually exclusive but they can on occasion intertwine. I would guess that people into the wet side of things may enjoy the feeling of having their clothes feel tight on their body from getting soaked. More into the messy side of things where the fun is getting completely unrecognisable using as much mess as possible whether that be slime,pies, or whatever else you can find...more the better. The getting wet in clothes thing baffles me if i'm honest but it's harmless enough, perhaps i'm not meant to understand it.

I think they definitely overlap for some people, myself included, and I suppose it's quite likely that that depends on what attracts you to WAM in the first place. For me I think it's a lot about the "forbidden" nature of it, and as such, getting your normal clothes wet is as forbidden as getting them dirty / messy, so yes, I genuinely find both exciting.

My kink is mud and slime.. however it is pretty fun when my gf comes in the hot tub with a white t-shirt and some leggings.. definitely less invasive fun, breaks the wam blues

I recognize the wetlook side of things, but I also associate messiness with wetness, for example, the moistness of the pie and slime creates a wet sensation by nature of it being squishy.

That is subjective and the answer will differ depending on who you ask. For us, it's kinda bit of both. We use both and we embrace both. The next person you ask will probably give you a completely different answer. Some people like a shower scene after a good mudding or a good hit of the "seltzer bottle" after a pie, and some don't.

I mean, wrestling and WAM could be mutually exclusive or not depending on how it's done and who you are asking. The same can be applied here

I'm personally into the humiliation side of wam so get water splashed on or poured over me , especially clothed gives a very similar sensation to being pied or slimed.

I have explained it as wet is a slow, long love making with the sensations washing (lol) over you and most times messy is like a good hard fuck-both have their place and time, just depends on what your mood is! Which is why I love WAM, can be so versatile!

I always thought it was odd that wet and messy were grouped together. On paper, they sound like opposites to me!

But it seems like many folks posting do feel a connection between the two! For me at least, I'm strictly interested in mess. I have no interest in wet, wetlook, or water, etc.

Wet on my own, messy with others. Messy is fun with others but it also means more people to help clean up.

I like the wet look. A woman dripping wet is super hot to me, not as much as a woman covered in mud or slime but after hooking up with a girl in a hot tub I learned that the in the water thing was not as pleasurable as I thought it would be. I like the look of both, but when it comes to having a partner, messy is the way to go. As far as doing the wet thing in a personal session myself, it doesn't really do anything for me.

Interesting stuff thanks.

Like some of you, I've never seen the appeal of the W in AM. For me, I love the feeling of being slimy. However it's definitely something I'm willing to consider.

I'll add a lil bucket of Xanthan gunge to the mix lol.

My cop-out opinion is that I think it all depends on how various interests, desires, and fetishes overlap.

For example, there's some potential overlap in wet/messy if you're a slime fan, based on the consistency of the slime. I'm more of a messy fan and prefer a thicker, smoother slime to the more transparent British gunge. Some might like water and the more transparent British gunge precisely because of it's transparency and consistency, whereas my personal tastes make me prefer someone either getting a thick sliming or getting a watering.

Also, I like slapstick water gags worked into messy scenes, or sometimes even on their own like a dunk tank, a glass of water in the face, etc. But since I'm more about slapstick than sensory, I'm less interested in someone doing clothed bathtub immersion.

But then, there's the inexplicable thing I have for hot women in bathing suits swimming underwater, which is neither Slapstick nor messy, so maybe I have no idea.

100% me

The more I learn and explore kink, the more I've realized I am a sensualist - so my sexual interest in WAM has to do with the feelings, smells, sounds, sometimes tastes, and visuals of both experiences (the more senses I can positively incorporate... the more I go bing, bing, bing) - this very much applies to both wet look and messy! So many variables in both to explore and try and form a menu of what gets me more revved. So for me when I go through the list of substances associated with WAM, water is just that - another substance.

Now, I also truly enjoy the silly side of WAM which I also feel can incorporate both in numerous ways - a good example, well, you can fall into anything

Although, true story - water is my first experience with WAM (I sometimes call it my gateway into wam tee hee hee) when I was probably too young to do so (and honestly didn't understand what I was doing) - I would masturbate by letting the faucet run over my clit while I would head dunk backwards underwater

Wet, messy it's all the same as long as the ladies are wrestling in it
I mentioned ladies in particular because that's my personal preference on who I like to see participating. But yeah wet, messy, IMO it's all under the same umbrella (is that a pun)

I like both, especially combined: Wet AND Messy. One of my fantasies is a gorgeous woman with a revealing wet dresses, smirking because she knows how hot she looks....and getting a pie in the face.

I'd rather have pictures of the real thing but their rare so I've turned to AI.

Would LOVE to do a custom photo set for you... message me if you're interested in being a paying customer!! I especially love to get wet in gowns and period costumes

My personal preference is definitely messy, the messier and stickier the better, either in person or watching a scene. However, I do also enjoy the sight of a fully clothed woman soaked to the skin, nice clothes clinging to her body. I'm not really a fan of mixing them together.... what's the point of washing off the mess halfway through?