Sometimes I hate that i have this kink or fetish because of the behaviour of other wammers, we all.know that women here have a hard time. Someone i wam with regularly won't come on the site now because of the behaviour and messages she was getting. She creates content and is across a number of kinks, so before we go down thats just the internet,.parr of it is that but in her opinion wammers are way way worse than others.

This is not the only reason I writing this though I have seen behaviour this week that has sickened me. On Tiktok you have Jake suggesting a gunge vote between a woman and her child, search his name and he is hounding hundreds of women to get gunge or pied or both in jeans. You have Anthony, listers mate on here with vids where he has asked blaly under aged women to pie themselves and is now kink projecting with AI videos.

But these are just randoms on the internet ok lets look at a producer who has put out a casting call for people aged 16 up ..... 16!!! But its just a fun gunge game just fun but of course.to be considered you must either be 2 girls or 1 girl 1 boy. This same producer has also had a vid on socials.of him gunging a friends teen daughter!

So the question is why are wammers like this and so much worse than other kinks.

To keep.this on topic and in the busy messy forum not swept away in the depths somewhere. Here is a pie recipe for an ultra thick choc pie.

500grams of chocolate frosting

250grams of icing sugar

2 tablespoons of Sosa Emulsifier

250ml of Lemonade or other full sugar soda

Mix for 10 minutes or as long as needed to get a thick smooth cream.

All the approx 3 litres of mixture into a foil pie tin

I have been doing my own box in over whether I'm messaging soomeone too much only to have a message along the lines of "Oh np, chat on here is so broken " Look, I know this site is a passion project for MM but for a point of having a quick natter with someone, chat here is randomly borked. If you want it to work you need the correct browser, time of day, Mercury rising in the house of Sagittarius and to say three Hail Marys to the ghost of Bill Shipton.

Eww that guy on TikTok sounds more disgusting than NastyGunge's session shopping list.

Can confirm, that recipe is good if you want sticky pies with great coverage. Click my profile pic.

I had the same conversation with a few people recently . As far as ethics go among the various facets of the kink scene , we seem to be the least mindful in the wam world and I just dont know why. So many ppl trying to involve minors, trick ppl into wam under the guise of charity or slapstick fun etc. YOU NEED TO GET CONSENT TO INVOLVE PPL IN UR KINK NO MATTER WHAT IT IS. I have called out ppl before but got exhausted by it and have stopped because people just don't care. You'll remember the thread where a parent was asking how others get privacy from their kids for wam and a user on here said they should just involve the kids..that user still remained on the site after mods took a look. Or the other guy who posted pics outside a supermarket getting 'pied for charity ' , restrained with bondage furniture (just reposted them cropped after I made a fuss) .... the thread about hosting public events with church groups etc...I could go on and on.

I am also baffled as to why can't so many people see the issue of making fetish content with ppl under 18? So what if there's no sex, some one is fapping to it. There's plenty of non wam bondage content without sex, do we excuse that with minors? No we dont ?!

I despair . I feel like I have been so so lucky having met and gotten messy with a very small number of ppl that I met online because what I generally see online and the stories other ppl tell me are so off putting. Now I have met a small bunch, I dont need to go through the stress of finding more ppl. On that note - thanks for being so 'normal' and never making me feel unsafe, never put me at risk and consistently being an excellent human to get messy with and to know .

I will preface all comments by saying that NONE of this is an excuse for the poor behavior many display!!

I think a big "problem" with WAM or Sploshing as a kink is that, unlike some other kinks and fetishes that are more "mainstream", there is a version of the actions that are purely innocent. I grew up in the era where a kid's TV channel in the US that prominently featured the color orange (trying to avoid breaking terms and conditions) would routinely use pies and slime as pranks (though the stories that came to light about some of the execs over the last few years might give me some cause to reconsider the motives tbh.) In general, pies in the face, buckets of slime, and food-related messes can all reasonably viewed as just pranks or silly fun to a lot of people. Some people outside of the fetish community I have spoken with have no idea that WAM was even a fetish people had and even a lot of people I have spoken to over on FetLife don't really have any idea about the fetish or kink aspects of WAM (though they typically can understand it rather quickly.)

WAM is definitely NOT the only fetish or kink with an innocent companion action per se, but I wonder if the fact that food messes or pies and such are thought of more as funny or silly in the general population than kink that it contributes to the issue somehow. Not sure if there maybe being less eyeballs on this corner of the fetish world gives people more confidence to be louder about those thoughts or if it even factors in at all.

On the topic of that pie recipe, it looks amazing! I wish it wasn't as difficult to get that emulsifier over in the US.

I dont think the the number of messages is the issue unless they are unawnsered obviously and having spoken with you a few times i am sure they are nice messages hi how are you, would you like to chat etc. Not opening overly sexual messages like i would love to do x y z with you, or do you want to see my privates covered in nutella. The very fact you thought to check yourself.is a green flag.

I mean just look at the comments made on pictures here then imagine what the in box.is like. Better still ask a female.friend on here if you can see.theirs, ot will.open your eyes.

Also well.done on trying the recipe,.glad.you had fun.

This is true and gives us a whole new problem, people who do an innocent charity event (not the blatant wammers using it as an excuse to endulge in their kink with no consent.) or a.play where someone gets pied or being at a mexican for their birthday, then find their vids given odd comments and that vid is shared on fetish sites or even porn sites.

I cant believe we are allowed to share these vids on here without consent from the op purely.because if we didnt it would so dramatically reduce the content.on here. Maybe if we stopped.pirating and sharing videos and more importantly wasn't so toxic as a community that models and content creators dont need to take.long or permanent mental health breaks.from here because of the messages.or.because someone has sent them a pic of them pleasuring them selves on a video still or made.a creepy AI deepfake of the person and now wants them to act it out. Just a few examples I am sure there are more and remember this is often the first message.

On topic thank you try SP Emulsifier get the paste, its from Thailand but looks to be available on Ebay