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"Wam Sex"
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I've been getting messy with my wife for years, and in general our messy sex starts with a pie or two and proceeds from there. Often I'm naked and she's clothed, because a big part of my pie fetish is about "dressed up to get messed up". By the time I pie her, I'm usually very excited, and once I do pie her, I like to get pied too, and then we fool around and I have my orgasm. She doesn't cum when we have WAM sex; it's more my thing and there are other times when her pleasure is prioritized. (I have a fantastic marriage and I'm super-fortunate.) Because she doesn't want any issues with cream/crust in her vagina, we usually don't have intercourse, but whatever else we get up to, I am very satisfied. The only time we have intercourse while messy is when we can keep our naughty bits clean, which I'm sure plenty of people on this forum will agree is not as easy as it sounds. Usually it involves wearing our clothes longer than I'd like and having sex standing up, which as a very tall gentleman is not ideal.
But yesterday morning, we were preparing to have some WAM sex in the afternoon. (Happy pandemic Thanksgiving!) I had just pulled two coconut cream pies out of the fridge; they were sitting on the counter, getting nice and soft. We had just finished a light workout and she looked damn tight in her yoga pants. Her sweet shapely ass + the pies sitting on the counter for later got me randy and we started kissing and groping, fooling around on the kitchen floor. There's an old (but clean) rug there with a rug pad under it; it's no bed but it wasn't uncomfortable. I peeled the yoga pants off her, stripped down myself, and we started having sex. I was on top of her and could see the pies sitting on the counter a couple feet away, at the edge of my reach, but I made no move for them. It did further excite me, seeing them waiting there. The thought of reaching over and plucking one off the counter and tipping it into her moaning face with no warning....I'd be in big trouble if I actually DID that, but the thought of doing it was so erotic. Or what if I pulled one off the counter and asked if I could pie her? Or what if I grabbed a pie and threatened her with it, only to smash it in my own face? I'd surprised her with that move before, and she always got a laugh out of it. As I moved with her, fucking on the kitchen floor, all these possibilities ran through my head, and I got so excited that I came. My wife had a much more fulfilling experience than our usual sessions, too. It was one of the best WAM sessions I've ever had, and the pies sat unused on the counter.
I guess we all fall into patterns; we think we know what we like and stay in our lanes. I'd always considered the pies to be more of the starting point of WAM sex, but the thought of finishing with the pies was what drove me wild yesterday. Now, since we didn't use them yesterday, the pies will get used today, but instead of splatting the pies all over each other and going from there, I'm going to wait to use them close to the end of our sex. What do other couples wammers do? Start messy and get sexy, or start sexy and get messy? Or is there a midpoint/combo?
But yesterday morning, we were preparing to have some WAM sex in the afternoon. (Happy pandemic Thanksgiving!) I had just pulled two coconut cream pies out of the fridge; they were sitting on the counter, getting nice and soft. We had just finished a light workout and she looked damn tight in her yoga pants. Her sweet shapely ass + the pies sitting on the counter for later got me randy and we started kissing and groping, fooling around on the kitchen floor. There's an old (but clean) rug there with a rug pad under it; it's no bed but it wasn't uncomfortable. I peeled the yoga pants off her, stripped down myself, and we started having sex. I was on top of her and could see the pies sitting on the counter a couple feet away, at the edge of my reach, but I made no move for them. It did further excite me, seeing them waiting there. The thought of reaching over and plucking one off the counter and tipping it into her moaning face with no warning....I'd be in big trouble if I actually DID that, but the thought of doing it was so erotic. Or what if I pulled one off the counter and asked if I could pie her? Or what if I grabbed a pie and threatened her with it, only to smash it in my own face? I'd surprised her with that move before, and she always got a laugh out of it. As I moved with her, fucking on the kitchen floor, all these possibilities ran through my head, and I got so excited that I came. My wife had a much more fulfilling experience than our usual sessions, too. It was one of the best WAM sessions I've ever had, and the pies sat unused on the counter.
I guess we all fall into patterns; we think we know what we like and stay in our lanes. I'd always considered the pies to be more of the starting point of WAM sex, but the thought of finishing with the pies was what drove me wild yesterday. Now, since we didn't use them yesterday, the pies will get used today, but instead of splatting the pies all over each other and going from there, I'm going to wait to use them close to the end of our sex. What do other couples wammers do? Start messy and get sexy, or start sexy and get messy? Or is there a midpoint/combo?
Interesting post. (Your wife is lovely, btw, and GGG.)
It would never occur to me to pie Mrs. Bee at the end, as opposed to the start, of sex. It would seem (the bad pun police will fine me for this) anti-climatic. But it's cool that you surprised--and learned something new about--yourself.
It would never occur to me to pie Mrs. Bee at the end, as opposed to the start, of sex. It would seem (the bad pun police will fine me for this) anti-climatic. But it's cool that you surprised--and learned something new about--yourself.
I have done just this with the wife a number of times. When it's colder and she does not want to get messy I ask her to ride me while holding onto a pie or cake. This builds a huge anticipation and makes me want it so bad. She will tease and tease till she can feel I am about to cum and smush it right into my face. Suffice to say I don't last much longer afterwards. This is clearly just for me but I always make it up to her later. Try that some time. Thank me later.
This is a really interesting thread. For most of the time we have wammed together me and my wife have kept the wamming and sex seperate - get messy together first, then sex follows once we're all nice and clean, any urgent tidy up is done etc. More recently we did try sex while messy for the first time, but while it was an amazing treat it inevitably lead to my wife getting very sore in her vagina for a day or so afterwards. We had kept fingers crossed that maybe we'd get away with it but no such luck (I know everyone's body chemistry is different but frankly I'm astonished there are any women who can get a lot of mess in and around down there and NOT get sore afterward!).
I do wonder though if something like her teasing me with a pie during sex, then it ending up in one of our faces near the end, could work really well for us - she enjoys teasing me in bed, I love anticipation, and a single pie means less mess, which (though she's always a trouper) I know would probably be a plus for my wife. The more I think about it, the more I can't believe we haven't already tried it!
I do wonder though if something like her teasing me with a pie during sex, then it ending up in one of our faces near the end, could work really well for us - she enjoys teasing me in bed, I love anticipation, and a single pie means less mess, which (though she's always a trouper) I know would probably be a plus for my wife. The more I think about it, the more I can't believe we haven't already tried it!
I find this topic quite interesting as well, and I agree with your earlier statement about falling into patterns, thinking we know what we will like, and I guess basically assuming it will always be so.
I have gone from ONLY pieing my ladies over the years, to finding (quite by surprise) that I very much enjoyed the visual and anticipation of being pied by them instead. And, much like you sir, I have even engaged in sex where a pie was sitting right there next to us, which we had intended to use, but somehow never got around to actually using. BUT the anticipation and the idea that I could have pied her at any time (or she, me) was truly a very exciting experience in and of itself.
I've even had a woman who knew of my preferences tease me verbally with the idea of doing it at a future time in the middle of her pleasuring me. That was also quite stimulating.
All that to say that I believe sometimes it's the anticipation and the build up to the event that makes it even more potent. It's like dating someone new, and kissing then for the first time. It's a feeling if anticipation you never quite get to experience with that person again, which is why drawing it out makes it that much more fun, in my opinion.
Good thread.
I have gone from ONLY pieing my ladies over the years, to finding (quite by surprise) that I very much enjoyed the visual and anticipation of being pied by them instead. And, much like you sir, I have even engaged in sex where a pie was sitting right there next to us, which we had intended to use, but somehow never got around to actually using. BUT the anticipation and the idea that I could have pied her at any time (or she, me) was truly a very exciting experience in and of itself.
I've even had a woman who knew of my preferences tease me verbally with the idea of doing it at a future time in the middle of her pleasuring me. That was also quite stimulating.
All that to say that I believe sometimes it's the anticipation and the build up to the event that makes it even more potent. It's like dating someone new, and kissing then for the first time. It's a feeling if anticipation you never quite get to experience with that person again, which is why drawing it out makes it that much more fun, in my opinion.
Good thread.
simp99 said: I've been getting messy with my wife for years, and in general our messy sex starts with a pie or two and proceeds from there. Often I'm naked and she's clothed, because a big part of my pie fetish is about "dressed up to get messed up". By the time I pie her, I'm usually very excited, and once I do pie her, I like to get pied too, and then we fool around and I have my orgasm. She doesn't cum when we have WAM sex; it's more my thing and there are other times when her pleasure is prioritized. (I have a fantastic marriage and I'm super-fortunate.) Because she doesn't want any issues with cream/crust in her vagina, we usually don't have intercourse, but whatever else we get up to, I am very satisfied. The only time we have intercourse while messy is when we can keep our naughty bits clean, which I'm sure plenty of people on this forum will agree is not as easy as it sounds. Usually it involves wearing our clothes longer than I'd like and having sex standing up, which as a very tall gentleman is not ideal.
But yesterday morning, we were preparing to have some WAM sex in the afternoon. (Happy pandemic Thanksgiving!) I had just pulled two coconut cream pies out of the fridge; they were sitting on the counter, getting nice and soft. We had just finished a light workout and she looked damn tight in her yoga pants. Her sweet shapely ass + the pies sitting on the counter for later got me randy and we started kissing and groping, fooling around on the kitchen floor. There's an old (but clean) rug there with a rug pad under it; it's no bed but it wasn't uncomfortable. I peeled the yoga pants off her, stripped down myself, and we started having sex. I was on top of her and could see the pies sitting on the counter a couple feet away, at the edge of my reach, but I made no move for them. It did further excite me, seeing them waiting there. The thought of reaching over and plucking one off the counter and tipping it into her moaning face with no warning....I'd be in big trouble if I actually DID that, but the thought of doing it was so erotic. Or what if I pulled one off the counter and asked if I could pie her? Or what if I grabbed a pie and threatened her with it, only to smash it in my own face? I'd surprised her with that move before, and she always got a laugh out of it. As I moved with her, fucking on the kitchen floor, all these possibilities ran through my head, and I got so excited that I came. My wife had a much more fulfilling experience than our usual sessions, too. It was one of the best WAM sessions I've ever had, and the pies sat unused on the counter.
I guess we all fall into patterns; we think we know what we like and stay in our lanes. I'd always considered the pies to be more of the starting point of WAM sex, but the thought of finishing with the pies was what drove me wild yesterday. Now, since we didn't use them yesterday, the pies will get used today, but instead of splatting the pies all over each other and going from there, I'm going to wait to use them close to the end of our sex. What do other couples wammers do? Start messy and get sexy, or start sexy and get messy? Or is there a midpoint/combo?
But yesterday morning, we were preparing to have some WAM sex in the afternoon. (Happy pandemic Thanksgiving!) I had just pulled two coconut cream pies out of the fridge; they were sitting on the counter, getting nice and soft. We had just finished a light workout and she looked damn tight in her yoga pants. Her sweet shapely ass + the pies sitting on the counter for later got me randy and we started kissing and groping, fooling around on the kitchen floor. There's an old (but clean) rug there with a rug pad under it; it's no bed but it wasn't uncomfortable. I peeled the yoga pants off her, stripped down myself, and we started having sex. I was on top of her and could see the pies sitting on the counter a couple feet away, at the edge of my reach, but I made no move for them. It did further excite me, seeing them waiting there. The thought of reaching over and plucking one off the counter and tipping it into her moaning face with no warning....I'd be in big trouble if I actually DID that, but the thought of doing it was so erotic. Or what if I pulled one off the counter and asked if I could pie her? Or what if I grabbed a pie and threatened her with it, only to smash it in my own face? I'd surprised her with that move before, and she always got a laugh out of it. As I moved with her, fucking on the kitchen floor, all these possibilities ran through my head, and I got so excited that I came. My wife had a much more fulfilling experience than our usual sessions, too. It was one of the best WAM sessions I've ever had, and the pies sat unused on the counter.
I guess we all fall into patterns; we think we know what we like and stay in our lanes. I'd always considered the pies to be more of the starting point of WAM sex, but the thought of finishing with the pies was what drove me wild yesterday. Now, since we didn't use them yesterday, the pies will get used today, but instead of splatting the pies all over each other and going from there, I'm going to wait to use them close to the end of our sex. What do other couples wammers do? Start messy and get sexy, or start sexy and get messy? Or is there a midpoint/combo?
That's amazing what are something other things you two can explore?
I would explore each option you mentioned and try something new each time you engage with each other.
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