Have any of you ever got messy, but the consequences or backlash from the experience out-weight the sensation of it? Here's my example.
When I was in high school I was really starting to discover that I liked getting messy. I was talking to a girl on MSN (that's how long ago this was) and talked the conversation around to her daring me to smear chocolate mousse over my face for her. I did it but was extremely nervous and told her to promise not to tell anyone.
Of course that's not how high school works, she told everyone and I literally didn't live it down for the next 3 years of high school, I was about 13 at the time so had no idea about UMD or anything like that.
It put me in a very dark place mentally and I still have the occasional nightmare about it to this day.
Only not having a camera on me when I was a college boy at an event where girls were in a pie-eating contest. One of the pretty RA's wasn't involved in the competition, but got pied as a prank shortly after. The saddest thing is that my GF came to the event with me and had brought her camera because I told her I'd like to get pics of that, but she had to go to work about 15 minutes before things actually got interesting, and took her camera with her.
I accidentally left out 5 gallons of chocolate syrup I had just brought (5 tins of it). One of my friends, who knew nothing of my fetish, saw them. They just looked at me and asked why I needed so much chocolate syrup. Before they could finish their sentence they fell silent. They knew. They still wont stop mentioning it to other people.
Stella said: I accidentally left out 5 gallons of chocolate syrup I had just brought (5 tins of it). One of my friends, who knew nothing of my fetish, saw them. They just looked at me and asked why I needed so much chocolate syrup. Before they could finish their sentence they fell silent. They knew. They still wont stop mentioning it to other people.
Stella, with friends like you and Pie-Face have/had, who needs enemies?!
That's one of the reasons why I've never told anyone. Even "good" friends can't keep their mouths shut about things!