Have you ever consider WAM as a way to avoid depression and be happy?

Im sure WAM, and produce it save me from depression, when i meet this community and i see how many amazing people share their content (As download or for free) this motivates me, help me in a hard moment when my work options were so low, i lost people, but then someone gives me a great opportunity for me and my friends to create one art called CFNM and then i started to upload content here, meeting GREAT people, their feedback was amazing, when i thought everything was lost, this save me in many ways, not only with money, and everytime im here this is like my safe place a HUGE safe place to share with you all my likes, my content, my love.

Everytime im here sharing content for few hours and editing for you while im disconnected from "the real life" is like feeling alive for a moment and happy cause im sharing it with beautiful people that show their best in every picture, video or post where they share their feelings, and im so happy to be here and GLAD to be your friend.

If someone is reading this forum and doesn't feel sure of Herself or himself, if you are sad but you like get WET or MESSY keep doing it, use this art to feel better, fill your heart with the things you love, im sure you can do it and im proud of you all that keep trying everyday LIKE ME to be happy in this ugly reality.

If you agree or if you feel identified, tell me your story, im sure this will help a lot of people to feel better, and gain security to do more everyday agains this real enemy.

Thank you for let me be part of this.

WAm is an active part in my statergies to help when I am depressed. If I'm feeling incredibly down, that I'm a mess and that there is no way forward I get myself messy. Covered in food stuffs, my play area also messy. Doesn't have to have a sexual aspect behind it. Once covered I just look at the mess and clean up. That act usually then gets me back on to my feet and back on track.

Given the nature of WAM it does mean that getting messy is like the last resort. the last resort before seeking out professional help.

The more "lighter" ways of handling the depression is to crossdress. Dress up in the skin tight, shiny PVC and pleaser heels and out I go. Nothing boosts your self confidence than a pair of delight-1020s.

I use it to improve my mood in a self-indulgent way. I don't really have much in the way of friends. I keep meaning to take part in fetish communities a bit more regularly to maybe build up some connections with like-minded people, but regardless of how much fetish stuff I've seen I guess my natural introversion makes it difficult for me to discuss things of a sexual nature with anyone. As a result, indulging in WAM fantasies might make me happy for a bit and produce some sweet dreams, I'd say it kind of makes me feel more lonely more often than not because I don't have anyone to share it with. Tbf, that's not limited to WAM. I'm also into various flavours of femdom and like the above poster I've dabbled in crossdressing, with similar effects. Baby steps I guess, maybe I can get more out of it if I'm a bit more sociable...

I was troubled as a teen-ager and turned to WAM as a way to feel better. I dealt with severe depression and OCD, and WAM was always there to help me cope.

In the early days, I'd play in mud, but afterwards, due to my severe OCD, my brain would call me names and accuse me of being a worthless pig. But as I fought my mental illnesses, I came to accept it as part of who I am, and I never put myself down any more for how I am wired.

I'm now happily married and my wife and I both enjoy wam, but age and sickness have kept us from our former excursions to secluded mud areas, so we mostly just watch messy videos.

That situation will be improving over the winter though, as we're setting a fun room with a large pool, draining into the floor, and with a hand-held shower nearby.

Bottom line is, yes, WAM does help very much to improve the mood and keep us young. After all, what is more innocent and fun than playing with your food, or in the mud?

I voted "it doesn't work" and the reason being that most of my WAM is done alone, but it's become very much a sexual thing for me. Because of this, it's very much something I want to share with someone.

I have similar problems with masturbation as well, there' just no afterglow, or satisfaction anymore. If there's any pleasure in the act, it's expelled the nanosecond I cum. But, the silver lining is that it generally purges the horniness as well and I'm free to concentrate awhile until it overtakes me again.

There's nothing quite like the enveloping comfort of a deep thick mudpit!

I feel it helps knowing there are loads of other folks out there with the same weird kink as me, and the rare occasions I get to do WAM with someone else feels like validity too. I guess we all need an alternative world to escape to in some form or another.

JohnWam, it's yes and no for me. It's complicated for me to get wet and messy the way I really want. When I was teenager, I used wetlook as a means of escaping my terrible teeanager years. It was just me in the shower with my clothes on, no one to harass me or "pick on me" and hopefully my mother would not find out then the peanut butter really hit the fan if she did!

Now, I get on here and sometimes have really good, stimulating conversations with my friends and I feel better but if certain friends aren't up here when I am, then I still feel down.

I use my writing wam stories as a coping mechansim and that helps too!

Wam is sexual for me as well. If I get wet and messy alone, i just have to masturbate to relieve myself. If someone is with me then it's better. So does wam help with depression? it's a matter of who is answering the question. Like everything else in life there's drawbacks.

Thank you for all your thoughts and points of view, reading everyone context i can see you use it as escape, stress relief, and it work, cause the most important tool agains this real status we know as "Depression" is keep our minds busy, work in our happiness, many people (Like me) use the gym, others watch movies or series, some people start projects, but the most important and effective way to stay away from it is try to give the peace to ourselves.

This minutes or hours we spend here is a way out to the normal life, here we enjoy and support beautiful and amazing people that share with us their content and happines with this great family, we can do it alone, with our Friends our couple but here we are ourselves here we left our heart flow and be happy, i think is really usefull cause many people can feel alone, wherever they are but here they are not alone, they count on us, i'm sure this post is helping many of people to feel better, take into account your words are reaching to someone and helping with this REAL FEELING called "depression".

Even if we are not doing WAM on this post, we are reaching to amazing people using WAM as a BRIDGE and i don't know if you feel this too, but that feeling of being useful makes me feel AMAZING .

Thank you for share your throughts and stories, i'll keep reading your amazing words, really thank you so much for share it with me. Also if you feel that depression is winning the battle agains yourself and if this community or any content is helping you, remember that you can go with specialist, the way could be hard, but the first step is the most IMPORTANT, you are not alone