Hi all! I'm trying to work up the courage to ask my boyfriend to completely trash me with whatever messy items he wants to use. He's a bit tentative about the fetish but he's been open to playing around with some messy stuff. I'm looking for ideas that might help us ease into it since we're both beginners.

What would you have him do to me?I'm pretty much open to anything so feel free to let your minds run wild! If we start to do it more frequently, I might even post some photos of the humiliating things you told him to do to me

If your partner seems a little nervous, ask him before you buy the mess.
You don't want to grab something that's on his "no-way-no-how" list as it'll put a quick stop to the session.

Take it steady for a first session, for my first session with my partner we had a single bucket of gunge (10L) and PVC sheets on the bed. Started by dipping our hands in the warm gunge and rubbing it over each other, which lead onto some amazing sex.

Later on we've played about with swimsuit filling, and some light BDSM.
The filling is a great competition if you can rig an overhead bucket for the loser (first swimsuit to leak).
One of my favourites was to tie my partner spread eagle (hands and feet), loop the ties around and attach her to the gunge release of the overhead buckets, then I went down on her, making her cum and pull the ropes to release the gunge drop on us both.