hi wetlook enthusiasts! i'm pretty new to wetlook (about 6 months in) and trying to learn more about it! my boyfriend has been into this for some time and loves pushing me into water. i'm genuinely trying to understand the elements of wam and explore it together with him.

for everyone here who's made a splash with people, spill! how did you get your partner soaked with excitement? what revealed their deepest desires? give me your best tips for making splash experiences unforgettable.

pictures? stories? share away

Hi and welcome to this. I haven't really made anything wetlook besides a tiktok of me jumping in a pool fully clothed. I personally just enjoy going swimming fully clothed in jeans and love sleeve shirts but have also worn almost every type of clothing in water. One fun way to get wet could be dressing your best as if you're ogoing to a wedding but end up in the pool. Try out different outfits in water from dresses to casual wear and have fun with it. Go swimming in the rain or something.

if only pools were easier to come by i do love dressing up, especially in a fitted dress and pantyhose. now with the new element of getting wet in nice clothes? it's thrilling.

I've been doing wetlook for over 40+ years since i was a teenager and i think one thing to make your experiences unforgettable is the element of surprise! I remember when i lived in West Palm Beach in 1989 and the apartment complex i lived at had a party at the pool. One guy pushed this girl in the pool and she was fully dressed in a summer outfit and I remember her coming out of the pool with her hair slicked back. She wasn't mad or anything she just went with it. Maybe you need to push your bf in the pool when he least expects it.

There's always a nervous feeling about doing something like that...if you look at my videos of me jumping in the pool recently, i'm kinda nervous mainly because the water was cold. The first time was 58 degrees and then the next time was 64. My oldest daughter and I jumped together (sorry I'm not putting the video up here due to her privacy) and she was really nervous. The video entitled "Second plunge" was right after she and i jumped in. I'm wearing long johns, jeans, a t-shirt and a sweat shirt. In situations like that, you can't stall you either go for it or dont.

I also try and push my wife in with her clothes on at times. The excitement for me doing that is just to see her in wet clothes. I don't care if she pushes me in when i'm wearing clothes. It's just the thrill of doing something like that, that also brings excitement to me, if that makes sense.

The only partner I ever got wet was a girl I was seeing towards the end of my time at school. Before we hooked up we were on a trip with our school. We had to do this trust bonding exercise where one person would be blindfolded and had their hands bound and they were led by a partner who could only talk to them and communicate where to go. I was the blindfolded one and she was the guide and well during it she picked up a hose and started soaking me with it, this lasted about 5 minutes maybe but I was completely soaked. It was her way of flirting.

I got her back on a sailing trip about a month later on another trip when we went sailing. We'd stopped and put the anchor down and took in the sun and could go swimming if we wished. During that I pushed her off the boat and into the water in her uniform

We both got soaked again when we were at the beach after we'd completely finished school and we started wrestling and pulling each other into the water in our uniforms

Hey there. I'm kind of on the other end. I'd really like to get my wife into wetlook, but she just doesn't get it. I've tried talking to her, explained that is is a turn on for me, but she is just not interested. Maybe you have some ideas on how to get a native non-wetlooker (such as yourself) into it. Thanks.

I've been into it since I was 15 and I'm now 62. At 15 my parents had me baptised and I remember the thrill and enjoyment I had when I came out of the water fully clothed. It all started there for me. I've been taking fully clothed baths, showers and long walks in the rain all my life, I even got re-baptised as well. Sadly never learned to swim so never got to do the school swimming lessons firstly in your pyjamas and then in your clothes.

I've learned a partner within a sexual relationship can't be forced or turned into a wetlook or WAM enthusiast, my wife doesn't get why I find it such a turn on but will jump in the shower or bath clothed with little encouragement as she knows the affect it has on me and in return I try to make her feel special by doing things that make her happy wether that's through intimacy or buying small gifts or cooking her a nice meal to show my appreciation.

i love that! the element of not caring what happens to the state of your clothes. i'll have to take your advice and try pushing my bf into water when he least expects it

to echo what martyboy said, it can't be forced. i think what helped was incorporating things that i liked too so there was a balance between what turned both of us on. then, the idea of jumping in the shower didn't seem like such a bad idea

Hello! Just try different outfits, also alone. When you do, tease him with some pictures! That always turns my man on...

You can unveil his deepest desires either by trying, or by talking. I suggest you do both
Public places can sometimes be a turnon for some people, sharing that adventurous and none-caring self, where you don't mind getting wet in nice or elegant clothes.

What got you to try it and what elements of your liking did you guys introduce to make it enjoyable for yourself as well?

i was in a similar predicament a couple of years ago with my wife. i finally worked up the nerve to admit to her that i was into this, and asked her if she wanted to go swimming with me. it was rather difficult at first because she didn't know how to swim at all, but now she's as eager to get to the pool as i am. A big thing for her is that i let her pick out the clothes for what i wear. That helped A LOT. since theres certain things she just likes ot see me wear, which is pretty normal for folks anyways. people have outfits or clothes they like to see their partner in, just this way were getting wet in them. Also, making it fun and even romantic/ever so slightly erotic is wonderful as well. pool games or stuff like that. example, my wife LOVES when i give her foot and leg massages while we're in the water because she's far less tensed up than normal. Privacy has also been a big factor. we rent pools through an app, and have these pools to ourselves for the most part besides the actual owner being in the house. now if youre limited to a shower, thats far trickier for couples. theres not really enough space to enjoy being together UNLESS you have a walk in shower. most of the time you just kinda gotta take turns with each other. spontaneousness may also help. not giving them time to get into their heads about it. getting "caught" in the rain, jumping in fountains, even lakes or beaches are great(depending on how safe those areas are) its truly a wonderful thing to get your partner into, and i hope it works out for you!

thanks for sharing! this has felt like an awakening and definitely opened more doors for exploration. i was really happy that he felt comfortable sharing his desires with me. now we get more moments!