For me its getting clothes messy and seeing the change between a clean formal shirt to a messy shirt, whether its pouring it on the outside or filling it from the inside
Clothed, always. I've zero interest in watching nudity, and don't like being naked either, for me WAM is all about the fully clothed experience. And getting dressed up to get messed up, especially with an SO, is a wonderful experience in its own right as you both put things on specifically thinking about what youre then going to do to each other in the outfits, and where and how the mess is going to flow and gather.
I guess this is an age old question, and can be split into 3 camps, those who like clothed WAM, those who like nudity WAM and those that like or don't mind both.
For me im in camp 3, but believe each has its own reason for being good.
While looking at a naked person, covered in sloppy goo, custard can be a turn on (for some), and they like to see naked boobs and fannies, Clothed WAM has its own way of enticing. A clothed person invokes your imagination more, of what is beneath the soggy garments, plus clothed WAM has that element of destroying a good outfit, a kind of rebellious nature to it.
Like I say I enjoy both, and there's no right or wrong answer.
For someone who is on the end of a good WAMming its all about what they feel comfortable doing. If they enjoy messing their clothes, then that's fantastic. Equally if they are happy to strip off and plaster their naked body, or they enjoy that better, then top stuff. WAM should be about fun. Enjoying yourself and feeling good.
Only clothed for me. And the clothing has to be something that fits my taste (generally speaking formal wear, business wear or costumes worn with tights/stockings).
The model needs to start wearing clothes, ending up nude or partially nude is optional. I extend the definition of clothed to apply to one piece swimsuits and leotards (but not bikinis or underwear)
Sessions I have with my wife always end nude - there's nothing quite like the feeling of two naked, messy, slippery bodies sliding against each other. Sometimes we start clothed - it's quite exciting "ruining" her clothing. But there is a practical problem with this, in that just when she's looking maximally ruined and exciting, off come the clothes and, along with them, most of the mess, and suddenly we're back at the beginning! Which can be fun but often, by that stage, just feels a bit frustrating. I don't know if anyone's found a good solution to that.
Reiver2 said: Sessions I have with my wife always end nude - there's nothing quite like the feeling of two naked, messy, slippery bodies sliding against each other. Sometimes we start clothed - it's quite exciting "ruining" her clothing. But there is a practical problem with this, in that just when she's looking maximally ruined and exciting, off come the clothes and, along with them, most of the mess, and suddenly we're back at the beginning! Which can be fun but often, by that stage, just feels a bit frustrating. I don't know if anyone's found a good solution to that.
Sounds like you're applying all the mess on the outside. Try clothes filling. Can be fun, especially with formal office trouser suits, to see just how much messy stuff you can pour inside, into pockets, etc, before any stains start to show on the outside.
I would go with the 'mix' of the two.... Start off 'geared-up', or whatever you like to wear, and hopefully have someone or some others to have 'fun' with.....
Make a big, glorious mess, and if it feels right, you could end up naked......, and then maybe have some more 'fun'......
Why not both, I think the best scenes start with a cute/sexy outfit and end with partial or fully nudity. I can thoroughly enjoy both, love seeing mess cover and cling to clothes but also on a sexy naked body.
My wife and I almost always start clothed unless it's a quickie mess. It's fun to fill her clothes and find the mess later. I'm also a fan of humiliation and "spontaneous " messes so the clothes help with that as well.
Wear whatwva fits the moment. Sometimes takes all day to decide. Sometimes no thought at all. Clothing is a barrier to the skin. Prolongs anticipation and excitement n I don't rush a good messy sesh...take your time n maximize the moment.
Love you, too
