I've always wondered this. I don't expect answers here. I'm sure the inbox bombardment for anyone who dared to reply would be relentless and unending.

I know there's lots of male wam, although it seems to be aimed to the gay market. I know there's women who like to do wam, at least some of which I assume must have the fetish. But I don't think I've ever seen a girl engaging with male content. Makes me wonder how often it happens privately, if not publically.

I'm going to guess, with a very few exceptions, no.

Haha nope.

I'm not sure I've ever received a like on any of my pics from a female profile

Thay's a really good question

I used to trade homemade messy vids with a lady friend I met here. She said she enjoyed the videos I made her, but they clearly didn't have the same effect. I think unless you know the person getting messy or it scratches a particular itch, male WAM just doesn't have the same impact. I mean, a women hitting herself with pies and getting turned on by it is pretty hot -- I think even many non-WAMmers would agree. A man hitting himself with pies and getting turned on by it, on the other hand, can seem a bit sad. Depends on the man and the pies, though, among other things.

Just a guess here, but I'd say some of them do and some of 'em don't.... There's enough pixs/vids here that show girls/women havin' fun with guys, and a lot where it's just women with women.

When I first discovered this site, I didn't join it, because it seemed to be all about women enjoyin' this somewhat crazy 'fetish'...... Since I'm more into guys, it took me a couple more 'visits', to realize that there were a lot of guys on this site too.....

A straight male friend of mine says that the girls/women only do this to make $$$, but I disagree with him. Maybe some do, but if you have this 'fetish', male or female, it is what it is.....

What do the ladies think ???

I do!!! Male wam is my ultimate but I grew up mostly finding female stuff so I like both. I'm pretty particular in what I like though and generally prefer non wamers since I like the humiliation aspect of them not loving the mess.

There's sort of two dimensions to this question.

First, do women in general like male wam in general?

I think categorically, from a hardwired standpoint, surely some must!

But, does this community have many female members who are into male wam?

Probably not so much, but that doesn't seem to be what the community is built for and has evolved into. But that doesn't preclude the existence of the earlier category.

You must then enjoy Bakerman70's content even though that's only drawings. We know the guy has a huge pie fetish but his male characters are always afraid of getting hit with a pie and don't like it so much afterwards.

https://www.deviantart.com/bakerman70

I reckon the balance between watcher and do-er can vary widely with people into WAM, and so far most women with the fetish that I've encountered are more do-er than watcher. That's not universal, of course, but I feel like it's a pattern that exists.

I used to be terrified of femdom WAM until I stumbled on his drawings and got converted

Now I can't lose no matter what happens in a boy vs girl pie game

Haha you'd be surprised at how much private male wam happens. For several reasons, one you nailed-I already get asked all the time if I like male wam, my inbox would explode! Secondly, a lot of hesitation in revealing one's identity I think keeps it more private. Not sure why people are so frightened of being revealed (insert ALL the sarcasm ) And lastly, I LOVE giving the wam tasks, so especially if the wam is done correctly-pretty fucking amazing!

ETA: I currently have a full plate of vanilla stuffs and cannot take on any subs asking for wam punishments! I do carve out time for OF people though! I would say sorry, but that just wouldn't be very domme of me would it

My two cents...

When I came across this site 20 plus years ago, Phoebe was huge! I remember seeing mostly men replying to the posts. I really didn't see male wam posts here until a few years later. Me personally, I love female wam. However, from time to time, I will check out some male wam on here. I think it's more for me seeing what I would like to do or fantasizing that it's me under that mess.

I think male wam is a limited market simply because men will buy more videos of women. Just how we operate. I have personal videos of me doing just about any type of wam from sweet to savory. Would I love to sell it to make some extra bucks? Sure! However there is a very limited market. Maybe it will change one day maybe not. Until then, enjoy what makes this fetish fun for you!

I'm a straight female and have zero interest in male wam. I think it might be because I find female wam more relatable, ie, imagining it's me doing it? Whereas that's not really a thing if seeing a male going about the art of mess. Having said that I have some great friends here that are male and I love to chat about experiences they may have had. I'd say more unites us than divides us!

It seems like generally no, 99% of reactions and stuff to my content are from other males and while I'm flattered I'm not really interested in interacting with other males beyond thanking them for any compliments.

As others said I think the issue is women who do respond to male wam content will probably get flooded inboxes.

There's an awful lot of mansplaining going on here. I yield the floor to the females and female identifying members of UMD. ...'cause... yikes.

I definitely appreciate the few yet varied responses here that are from women and not, you know, just people speculating about women.

I dunno, I don't mean to speak for anyone else, and I hope I don't come across that way. But a conversation about women interacting with male content has a couple of relevant parties, and men producing content are one of them.
I think more than 95% of the likes, comments and messages I get are from men, and the women who have interacted over my content are active WAMmers themselves, while a large proportion of the men who interact with my stuff are primarily into watching.

Just speculating here, but I believe a female that genuinely enjoys all the aspects of human sexuality in the same way a male does can pretty much rule the world. Maybe it's just better if there's not too many of them. We'd all be slaves.

This is the sort of really dehumanising content that unicornifies women kinksters and makes it really difficult for them.

For my part, no, I'm not into male WAM.

My sincere apologies to LunaDare and any others. I think I understand what you mean by unicornifying women. I have long puzzled why women are judged sexually by a different standard than men. I really like the sexual side of life. It's my favorite. I have nothing but reverence for what others like and dislike. What a person likes and what a person wants they do not chose, and I want it for them. Even if I can't help make it happen. Even if I don't understand it.

Of course, if I can help, one only need let me know.

LunaDare,
I just thought of something I really want to ask you out of sincere curiosity. Just because it seems you might answer, and it's not an opportunity that comes along every day. So... if it's something you feel comfortable sharing, what turns you off about male WAM?

I think the word you want is 'women'. I wonder why there aren't many responding.

Hello all!
This is Ms Mud
I don't mind male content. I find it interesting, the content that people willingly put out there for free is male especially in the mud fetish arena. My husband and I are hardcore mud fetishes. Honestly most male content straight or gay is free. To each his own. Most of our mud family on here are males, most are gay. If that's your thing cool for you. I like people's ideas, people's location s for getting muddy. I love our mud queen Jayce. I've purchased and watched most of her material. Especially the mud stuff. To answer your question yes, I watch male mud fetish stuff. Does it get me off, no. I need to be in the mud to get off. But it gives me ideas.

I do like to watch guys getting wet and messy - and I will give loves to content that I love!

I know they're a couple guys who have regularly released content on YouTube that I've always loved.

With women... I give loves and (sometimes) comments on content I love - usually stuff that I'd like to picture myself doing, or outfits I like, but sometimes just because they took kick ass photos and they deserve props.

I recognize that I'm not the target of a lot of male wam, which often seems aimed at other guys, but... I'll give it loves if it's the same *kind* of content which I like, and that's not always the same kind that is popular here, especially in pro-produced stuff.

For example: nudity, removing clothes, dumping stuff out of shoes, games, one party wamming the other while (mostly) staying clean, humiliation (faked or real)... those are all traditionally popular things to do, and - especially by themselves - they do nothing for me.

Now, if it's someone I'm in a relationship with, and we're taking turns or doing something together... that's entirely different.

But yeah... if a guy wears something that looks hawt, and does a set with slow immersion into water or mud - or sometimes other messes will hit the spot , or, again, if he's my partner - then I'm watching. With interest.

The key point is "in the same way a male does."

I'm not saying I might never align exactly with the way a guy likes things, but... even when we like the same things, the way that works for me can be entirely different. Which is probably getting into Messy Minds levels of discussion.

The women in these skits seem happy

https://youtu.be/y6xPrpzJtRY?si=a9YRWznFZhnwbieh&t=82
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/lnIt2p9GhsA

I do sometimes, if the setup is good or I really like the scenario. But I'm a lesbian, so I mostly really prefer seeing women get it so I can more easily imagine it's me in the hotseat (or me pulling the chain!).

I read more than you probably think, but I watch too.