Without meaning to be negative (given the world is about to be nuked) I see various wonderful eclectic images of people doing their thing, getting wet and or messy, and all manner of things inbetween. Not all the images I see pander to my own penchant, but I decide not to post a negative comment, because I know the person is doing THEIR thing and not MINE, and I accept that and appreciate that and enjoy seeing their photo anyway! Now I am getting older and more bitter as the years take their toll, when I see the comments of some regarding the photos posted here I think how sad and ungrateful some folk are. The photo would be alright except for........ She shouldn't have worn this, or she shouldn't have worn that, or she should have worn this or she should have worn that. It would be better if she wore boots, or shoes, or bare feet, socks or tights or stockings or bare feet. Always something that is never quite right for that observers particular interest. What is it about our fetishes that make us so ungrateful for what others do when they share their photos? When others do their thing, why do some people feel they need to point out that the poster of the subject matter hasn't quite reached the expectation of one particular individual and they then decide to comment on it, usually with a 'sad' or 'angry' face emoji? Having the entitlement to point out that the unicorn didn't fart their particular kind of sparkles.
I'm rambling again.
I am definitely getting old, and grumpy......
Despite that, I wish you all health and happiness!
Couldn't agree more, although saying that I realise I've occasionally (very occasionally, yet once too often) commented negatively. Rest assured I've stopped doing that. I gladly take what's offered, and what I don't like I ignore 'positively' insofar as such a thing is possible.
DoctorDamp said: ...when I see the comments of some regarding the photos posted here I think how sad and ungrateful some folk are. The photo would be alright except for........ She shouldn't have worn this, or she shouldn't have worn that, or she should have worn this or she should have worn that. It would be better if she wore boots, or shoes, or bare feet, socks or tights or stockings or bare feet. Always something that is never quite right for that observers particular interest. What is it about our fetishes that make us so ungrateful for what others do when they share their photos?...
Wise words there, Doc, and some I agree with wholeheartedly. My other half, Chloe, gets a lot of that, although we both laugh it off as, like you say, we're doing this for us. I hope I've never commented in that way (I don't think I have...) but if anybody ever sees me doing that then call me out on it!
Not all the images I see pander to my own penchant
Love you, too
