When a girl gets a pie thrown in her face it's more than the mess that excites me. I enjoy the back story and the relationship between the two people. Throwing a pie in someone's face is an inherently disrespectful act. It requires the "victim" to submit. But often, both victim and pie thrower seem to enjoy the experience.

There seems to be a special dynamic at work when a guy puts a pie in the face of a beautiful woman. It's so counterintuitive when you consider that guys are usually trying to impress hot women. They don't want to say or do the wrong thing as they approach her to ask her out on a date. But then he stands in front of her, holding "all the cards," so to speak as she giggles in anticipation, possibly rolling her eyes. He raises the pie and smashes it right into her face.

Maybe it's a relief for both to be able to loosen up and "break the rules." Perhaps this even impresses her, because it shows her that he isn't afraid to do this to her. After all, it's just playful fun. I love it when a guy pies a woman because it seems to shockingly violate any notion of traditional chivalry. He gives himself permission to step outside normal boundaries

I'd be interested in hearing other thoughts on the (subtly sexual) dynamic at work when guys pie girls.

your view of the man-pies-woman dynamic is quite eloquent (and makes a certain social / interpersonal sense)...though, I am not sure if this is actually the case with many or most guys who experience this "dynamic"...Is this your feeling, or ethos (having pied an attractive woman)?

Obviously, there's a big difference in this dynamic when it happens between acquaintances or friends, as opposed to a producer and model (who is being paid)...I assume that you mean in the former case, not the latter.

I would think too that there's going to be a difference in perception if the guy gets a thrill from pieing the girl (either the humiliation, or, an erotic thrill)...and whether the girl knows/understands this.

Also: public verses private setting.

A pie in the face is of course an affront to one's vanity, or, an "attack" on another's vanity....so, the beautiful girl who allows such an affront to happen to her is showing that she does not value her appearance so greatly (at least in an acceptable setting) that she would not tolerate some messy fun with a friend or partner (she 'values' the fun and friendship more)...on the other hand, doing this in public or at a special event changes the social character/meaning of the situation considerably...most would experience the humiliation first, and any "fun" or funny element second, if at all.

But I do think that there is a good deal of trust and comfort at work when this dynamic exists as you describe it.

Slapstick can be great fun, but it is a form of humiliation. Different women will react differently to this act, again, depending upon who, when, where.

Most recently I invited a couple girls I've known for a while over to my house and they already knew about my fetish; one was supposed to pie me and instead I pied her, she asked me to hold her friend while she pied her, then she pied me. One of the girls loved it and the other was annoyed. I'm getting pied by a group of girls for my birthday in a few days and one of them said she would get pied, too. Its pretty random which ones will participate.