If SploshyDan is reading the forums still, sorry just realised I've been messaging you but since going temporarily invisible (due to personal reasons) I lost all my friends and also had the 'no messaging' option ticked - so if you did try to message me back you could not.
Sorry to see you have now deleted your account. Please reach out and contact me as we still have a muddy date to arrange in our lovely coastal mud
Also to anyone else reading this, if you've been trying to contact me, both chat and messaging have been disabled so please send a friend request so normal shenanigans can resume!