I'm getting messy with a. Friend of mine at the weekend and for the first time we've talked about adding a little element of extra humiliation.
My friend likes the idea of clothes pegs on my tongue, so that the gunge runs inside my mouth. She's also asked about a peg on my nipples. I'm very much open to this but wondered if anyone had done either of these things and how bad the pain actually is?
I think if you've never done these before they're worth trying independently of getting messy
for 'how bad the pain is' this depends - on one hand it depends on the type of clothespegs and the strength of the springs - on another it also depends on how sensitive you are
there are assorted gags which will hold your mouth open, which might have less pain and be easier to withstand for longer periods - there is also one which has a tongue clamp which would keep that out.
For some other ideas though - kneeling on rice can be painful and uncomfortable, ideal if you're getting covered in pudding (rice pudding - geddit)
equally if you get aroused during sploshing, the Kali's Teeth are a much needed accessory
I'm getting messy with a. Friend of mine at the weekend and for the first time we've talked about adding a little element of extra humiliation.
My friend likes the idea of clothes pegs on my tongue, so that the gunge runs inside my mouth. She's also asked about a peg on my nipples. I'm very much open to this but wondered if anyone had done either of these things and how bad the pain actually is?
Thanks.
I think you'll have fun, if it's not good have a safe word.....if you want humiliation let her pick out a dress for you to wear....
I'd say a little experimentation in your own time to find pain tolerances is a good call, seeing as they vary from person to person-- and if you do the peg-on-tongue thing (or really anything that can stop you speaking legibly), augment your usual safe word with the option to 'tap out', wrestling style, in case you can't speak and Want Out.
Try some pegs yourself beforehand- its the only way you'll really know.
I second the above comment about a safety tap out since you might not be able to speak properly.
If she likes humiliating and controlling you, let her pick out a dress and/or lacy undies for you, or make you do your makeup first. She could also pour gunge into your open mouth so it dribbles down your front. "T-bagging" you with a strap-on could be another option too...
one thing to keep in mind, wam is slippery, if you are using sharp objects or placing objects which have the potential to do damage to you or your partner if you slip on them or have them between you just bare that in mind