To folks that enjoy solo sessions, care to explain why? I just had my 4th in as many years, and compared to a session with someone else it's just terrible. I think for me the biggest downside is the lack of anticipation, I know what's coming and when and how. I'm curious to hear the perspectives of those who do enjoy them, to see if I can approach solo sessions in the future in a way I will enjoy.
I think there are a few camps on solo WAM. Some like the look, others like the feeling. Personally I like the pandemonium of a multi person pie fight... so the solo aspect isn't really my ideal scenario either. But, I think playing in foam solo would be fun, while sitting on cakes, probably not.
Syrupy said: To folks that enjoy solo sessions, care to explain why? I just had my 4th in as many years, and compared to a session with someone else it's just terrible. I think for me the biggest downside is the lack of anticipation, I know what's coming and when and how. I'm curious to hear the perspectives of those who do enjoy them, to see if I can approach solo sessions in the future in a way I will enjoy.
Well, early on it WAS fun, and there was anticipation too. Sure I knew what I was doing, but it was new. I didn't know what exactly it was going to feel or look like. Also the terrifying fear of whether or not I was going to finish my business and get everything clean without getting caught.
Now that I'm older and on my own, it really doesn't do anything for me either. The novelty is gone and it just feels empty when I'm done, like a wank that cost more money and time to clean up than just a couple of tissues.
I just adore getting messy; it's a huge sexual turn on for me. So even after all this time I still get the same thrill from getting gunked up. I have shared it with another person a while back a few times but she didn't really enjoy it, and so it ended up diminishing my own excitement a bit, ( not being the kind of guy who wants people to spoil their own fun just for my sake.) The idea of sharing it with a fellow fetishist certainly appeals!
mudsprite said: I just adore getting messy; it's a huge sexual turn on for me. So even after all this time I still get the same thrill from getting gunked up. I have shared it with another person a while back a few times but she didn't really enjoy it, and so it ended up diminishing my own excitement a bit, ( not being the kind of guy who wants people to spoil their own fun just for my sake.) The idea of sharing it with a fellow fetishist certainly appeals!
I enjoy getting solo because for me it's usually the only way that I can. I've had one other session with another guy which was awesome and we'll be meeting again soon. However with the way my work works I'm usually quite busy and it's difficult to find time when others can come to me. For example my next free weekend isn't really until mid June. I've only been wamming for less than an year so the novelty is still there but I can see how you might tire of it quickly. I'm certainly hoping to meet up with others in the months ahead just to broaden my team experience. Maybe a solution would be for you to get some other members to choose what and how it happens to you.
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