Let me start by saying this is NOT a sympathy thread. This is purely a question out of curiosity to see if people feel this way.

In my experience (or lack there of) I have often found scenes in wam and in real life so beautifully amazing that it is almost depressing to watch simply because it is not you doing or having done anything like that before.


So anyone ever felt like this?

I wouldn't say depressed so much as frustrated when I see a great scene. I'm far more voyeuristic in my kink as opposed to participating so if I see a really great pie scene it sometimes overwhelms me to the point that I have no idea what to mentally do with it. Not a great answer, I know, but that's the best I can do.

Excellent question, Newpieguy09! Or, ninth pieguy.

I voted "Yes", because you know you'll never witness or see such a perfect real-life wam event again, and the event was not captured on film.

I am speaking hypothetically, because, luckily, I have never personally witnessed such a perfect lightning-in-a-bottle real-life wam event in my life. But, I am sure others have.

Well, actually, let me qualify that. I was honored to have been permitted to attend a wam videoshoot in my life. Now, obviously, the events of that videoshoot have become commercially available, so the event was not lost to history. I certainly felt depressed after it was over, knowing I got to witness a once-in-a-lifetime event. But, I knew the event was captured on video.
What I said above was really referring to spontaneous non-planned events.

It all depresses me... I am so jealous of couples that can share their passion for WAM, like Messygirl and her husband, PieGirlKay and her husband, and many other couples I see here on the UMD. My wife doesn't enjoy WAM. So again, it ALL depresses me. Happy New Year!

Yeah, but I get in other areas of life too. Like watching a happy couple or people just happy in general. I am jealous of lots of people. Watching a film where there is a love story and an incredible romance leaves me gutwrenched and sobbing because I am alone. But a swift pie to the face usually cheers me up.

Jessie xx
www.messy-jessie.com

In that case, Jessie, let me be your "Prozac"! I'll just hang around and every time you get depressed, I'll hit you with a pie (or two)!

Hiring me would be cheaper than the cost of medication and Therapist visits!

Norman

Now your inbox is going to fill up with proposals.

Actually, meds and therapy are free on the NHS. If pieing was a valid therapy (which I think it should be) we would have free pieing sessions

Jessie xx
www.messy-jessie.com

Don't, uh, relieve yourself. That's the key! For me, anyway. Really doh'.

Darn NHS! Now I can't apply to be Jessie's on-call pie-er!

But I like the part about free pieing sessions! Maybe you should petition Parliament!

Norman

Wow! Thanks for all of the replies!
"Seems I'm not alone in being alone."
Nah, not quite the same, but I still get it.

Yeah, in the end most of the scenes wam wise do the job for me that they are naturally meant for and are suppose to. I guess sometimes it's just one of those "feels" moments.
Thank you to all who have voted.

...pie therapy...now that's a wam story waiting to be written! Haha.

Also, sorry to hear you being single again Jessie ;(
...and I'm from across the pond so that's perfectly sincere since I couldn't possibly...well you get it. You are really friendly and a strong part of the wam community that we all know and love.
I guess it just goes to show that even big names like that get "lonely" sometimes.

Oh, and thanks for the posts Norm...even f you were basically just or ting with Jessie! ;p lol jk

I wouldn't say I get depressed, but overcome with a yearning to do the thing I've seen. WAM for me is a full blown fetish, like a drug, and sometimes the cravings make me do things that could be described as quite irrational. If I can't do them, I get frustrated and feel desperate.
I also really miss the days of having a girlfriend who accepted WAM. My ex was really open minded, and although I love my wife, she's not into WAM, and so the physical contact and pleasure of getting messy with someone else is sorely missed at times.

Not depressed but definitely frustrated many times that I haven't been able to experience the same kind of thing firsthand!!

Understood. Fair enough, I can see the frustration angle to it. I'm definitely glad you thought to post. : )

Also, sorry to hear that. I guess this really doesn't help, but look at it this way: you've gotten to experience something most of us have only dreamed about...

...aaaaand now I'm depressed. Lol

I think if seeing something you should otherwise be enjoying depresses you because you are not getting to experience it personally, that may be a sign of clinival depression issues. I'm no doctor or even a student of psych, but I speak from dealing with my own issues. It's a lot like "Paint it Black" by the Rolling Stones. I like to call that depression's anthem.

Yeah that sound about right for me. Like I said though, this wasn't meant to be a sympathy thing, although I am glad you commented. I was January curious if other have this problem in some way shape or form...

...and I'm honestly really surprised by he outcome!
Thank you again to all who voted and commented.

...kinda sad this is my most popular post ever, but hey, you take what you can get right? Especially if it's among friends. : )

Don't feel down about this post. Take comfort in knowing you're not alone and that you found a place where you can be you uncensored!

I've been single for over a year and half and I am fine with it. It's my choice to be single.

I think pie/mess therapy is the way forward. My sessions are kind of like that anyway. My guests come sit on my couch, open up about things they normally keep very secret and then we get messy. It's fucking awesome and I just wish I could have everyone over for a session!! Healing through wam. It's the way forward

Jessie
www.messy-jessie.com

We could bring Get Your Own Back to the NHS?

People always want what they don't have. It's part of being human. Relationships are tough, and can be much more work than you think they're worth.

We all have things that we see that we're jealous/desirous of. We can all get pleasure from seeing others experience their happiness on here.

And Jessie, if we were in the UK, we'd look you up for a session..