I've been thinking a lot lately about how much fun it would be to do a session with someone in my "real" (a.k.a. non-gunge) life, and I was wondering if any of you (especially in a male/male context) have ever engaged in "informed consent" sessions with non-wam enthusiasts, (especially buddies, colleagues, neighbors, teammates, et al.

(By "informed consent" sessions, I mean that the guys you played with, whether they trashed you or you trashed them, knew it was a kink/turn-on for you.)

How did you start talking about your interest in gunge/wam with them? Did they suggest doing a session with you, or did you ask to do a session with them? Did they end up hating it, being cool with it but not into it, or liking it? Did you get to do any follow-up sessions with them?

Basically, I'm interested in reading anything you'd like to share about your experiences with this kind of session.

So my girlfriend is incredibly vanilla. Like the only thing that really turns her on is when I'm more assertive during sex.

With that said, she absolutely loves seeing how turned on I get when she does something WAM-related (mostly limited to wearing a maxi dress in the shower after she wears one while we do the deed) so she's more than down to do stuff to an extent.

I kind of revealed it slowly- one night we were talking about the most embarrassing thing we'd jerked off to and I said it was to a lady in a t shirt dress getting soaked on the Ellen show and then I slowly revealed that I have a massive thing for watching women in long dresses- specifically maxi dresses, but I'll do like a gown as long as it's like a modern looking one without puffy sleeves or something.

Sorry I can't offer any insight into M/M sessions but I have previously had amazingly good experience with non-WAM enthusiasts, in my case a very long time ago with a neighbour and a more recently with a colleague, as an aside none of my partners had any idea about WAM but all have been willing to try.

I think the absolutely most important thing is "informed consent" part but happy you have already mentioned this.

Happy to discuss in more detail if you're interested?

Either way good luck and go for it, life is too short IMHO

College was a farm for me on this. I was able to talk to a lot of guys and get some feelers out. Usually it would start as innocent conversation that wound up with me admitting my love of slapstick comedy and most times would explain what that was and almost instantly "oh, I've love to get a pie in the face", then I would start the proverbial reeling. I wouldn't lean into it being a kink, but would openly let them know I've done it before and it's hilarious and a great time. There were a few that popped a boner, two of which admitted to it and those two ended up being done exploration gold mines.

All that to say, it is possible to do what you're seeking. Just gotta find the formula (or as we say slime recipe) that works for you.