Hey all! I found this older episode of sexpert Dan Savage's podcast, Savage Love, and was wondering if the woman inquiring about her husband's pie fetish was perhaps married to anyone here on the UMD?
Here's a link to the episode (the woman's call is at the very beginning) http://podbay.fm/show/201376301/e/1190707228?autostart=1
Pretty great Q & A segment on the topic of pie fetishism....interesting that he calls it "famous" and "uncommon but just common enough...that a friend of a friend of friend has one" (so, 3 degrees of separation from a wam fetishist) ...and also "fucking crazy" one moment (while later using the phrase "wet and messy fetish" --implying that it is a broad category of fetishism) and then later calling it "run of the mill"...but overall, the woman sounds like a really great and sympathetic person (if uninformed on fetishism), and Dan's advice is pretty solid (and offers her props for not dumping him)....I've always wondered if Dan has any kinks of his own (he talks a lot about other peoples' fetishes and kinks, but seldom or never his own)....lastly, and this is implied in his use of the term wet and messy....he perhaps should acknowledge that wam fetishism is VERY common...and has been co-opted by mainstream media (fashion magazines' wetlook photos, TV shows with tit for tat female food fights [Family Matters], mud fights [famously: Dynasty] and game shows with adults doing messy games and WWE stunts with hot Divas getting messy in various scenarios, etc.)...the appeal of wam is almost universal...and I'm guessing 1 out of 3 persons finds SOME aspect of SOME form of wam to be "appealing" or enjoyable to watch...just consider how many 'artists" use wam in their art works, videos, and performances
He also has a YouTube clip of a live speech he gave somewhere about pies in the face generally. He was answering questions and someone came up to him afterwards to chat about this, and his general response was that the fetish is the price of admission in a way to meet a really interesting person. He may have also smashed a couple of cakes in the guy's face too.
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