Just wondering whether any of you have been in the position where you have had a session loved it and all parties have got what they wanted out of it and then your faced with the clean up and thinking omg what have we done and how the hell do we get this off.
Absolutely. This actually happens pretty frequently when I use substances which take more effort to clean up. I do try to take it into account when planning a session now, balancing the thrill with the potential difficulty of the given cleanup.
Another way of looking at it is that if you're into WAM for the unpleasantness of being covered in something messy, we can't truly experience that since we fetishize it. I like to think that the feelings of regret afterwards are what a normal person would feel when being covered in mess. After the fact, you can embrace those memories of the unpleasant feelings and of the difficult cleanup to be able to empathize more with what someone goes through when being covered in mess.
Oh for sure. Some of my favorite things to use are baby oil, cooking oil, and butter. All of which are hard to get all the way off. I question myself every time I use one either on myself or with someone else.
Some times but not enough to stop me again the next time. I just try to learn from my mistakes.
There was a time when I lived with a roomate and while my now wife and I were playing she pied me pretty hard and I heard some of it splatter on an uncovered wall... I instantly regretted where we played and not covering that wall lol.
If I've had a great session then I rarely regret the clean up. It's par for the course. I am now days quite good at prepping for the clean.
Where I do regret is when I have a session and for whatever reason, it doesn't hit the mark (gunge too thin, the mood passed me and I felt obliged to see it through after setting up) and I'm left with cleaning something I've not gotten much from.
Thankfully all of my mistakes haven't been too bad. When we filmed "24 Pies of the Advent" it was done in our real bed and I dint tarp anything because I figured it would all be safe since I was just stacking pies on top of her head. Unfortunately (as visible from the footage) the very last pie I got carried away I suppose and it had a bit more splatter and it went inside/behind our slatted headboard. Needless to say, after the bed was cleaned up, we had to remove the headboard to clean behind it. Still an excellent scene and getting messes in unforeseen places is part of the territory - don't look at the ceiling of my garage!
Sometimes I get it as a symptom of sub drop. I look around at the mess, the clean up, think of the state of me and wonder why I like this? Especially if I lean into the humiliation aspect or a substance has a particular odour. I had slime ferment on me once, I made it too early, which was pretty messed up. Post nut clarity and sub drop is a dangerous combination but never stops me. Usually it takes a pretty good dopamine shot to feel that so its worth it. What goes up must come down!
I do hit panic mode and start cleaning frantically before anything sticks or stains. Of course there is the fear of a drain or toilet clogging. Anytime either slows down I think oh no! I really don't want to explain that to a plumber. Next house or reno will definitely have a dedicated wam room we decided.
Never had that indoors as always made sure to have things contained / protected, but occasionally outside, dressed in overalls and wellies, soaking wet and coated chest deep in liquid mud, just had the most amazing wank ever, but then need to get cleaned up and changed and back to vehicle with no-one seeing, which is generally harder than just finding a secluded mud spot to play in.
Love you, too
and we're one step ahead but at least we had the foresight to keep one of us clean just waiting for shops to open.
