Had a very strange experience today was browsing the forums and looking at preview pictures to see if there are any scenes I would like. Get to thread and from the first photo think that the model looks a lot like someone I know.

Scroll further down and realise they have the same very unusual tattoo, look at this model's other scenes, it is 100% the person I know!

Has this ever happened to anyone else?

I have multiple family members who look strikingly similar to current/former MostWam models-

1. I have a second cousin whose wife looks similar enough to Lisa Moomin that I was awkward around her back when I was just getting into WAM.

2. Similar vein- my cousin's wife looks strikingly similar to Rebecca Jane. Bought a scene with her in a black maxi dress mud wrestling with someone. The day after we all went to an outdoor brewery and it was the summer so my cousin's wife showed up in the exact same dress (this wasn't some odd coincidence - it's literally a black tank maxi dress so it was bound to happen) and it was again awkward for a moment.

3. Another second cousin's daughter (couple years older than me) looks a lot like Michelle. Several years ago my cousin (husband to RJ lookalike) got married and she pulled up to brunch the morning after in a floral maxi dress very similar to the one Michelle gets gunged in in a GTG scene. Again had to do a double take.

As for ACTUALLY recognizing a model- back in my "I want WAM without it being actual WAM days", I jerked it multiple times to some trash the dress beach shoot.

First day of class one year I walk into my teacher's room and there's a wedding photo of her and her husband on the beach on her desk. I do some deducting skills and realize I had been jerking it to my math teacher's trash the dress shoot.

Not yet but how are you going to handle it? Do you bring it up first or respect there privacy?

I will not bring it up with them, I don't know this person that well so not sure how they'd react, I was aware they did some modelling work but didn't know what

I had someone recognize me a while back. He messaged me and we chatted about gunge and pies and whatnot for while like normal when you talk to someone new. And eventually he was like "so I have a confession, I know you and recognized your pictures." And told me who he was.

We were decent friends, had visited each other's houses and had dinner many times before. So my mind was totally blown!

I've only had one instance of recognition so far, and a few times in public I've sworn people were staring at me for just that reason. I noticed it's only when I wear a tanktop, exposing my tattoos. Sometimes I don't care, but when I'm followed around a store so obviously it kinda puts me off. I'd rather someone just come right up and ask me to be totally honest lol. At least then I wouldn't feel paranoid.

I would love to meet fans, not an issue unless I'm with other people. If I'm by myself, I'm fine with having a quick chat. As long as the person is respectful, that's all I ask.

And if I meet someone in public, it should go without saying ; boundaries. If you bring up something that crosses a line, or ask for personal info, or ask explicit things of me, that's an instant red flag. It's the same if I were to meet someone I was a fan of. No matter who it is, I'd be polite and respect them. I feel like this is even more important for us with this type of content, as sometimes people can expect certain things, and misinterpret how we like to be approached.

Again, with all that being said, it's great connecting with people, sharing experiences, getting to know people over time without invading their space unless or until they are comfortable sharing. I've had many many wonderful conversations with so many people here now, and I always find myself in awe at how wild their stories and experiences are. The friends I've made here actually really help me with an otherwise restricting social anxiety disorder. The more people who I engage in conversation with, the more we relate to experiences, and just the more I get to open up, is really changing me I think into a much better person. I thank those people who know what it means to have those kinds of conversations, and I hope at the very least I could do the same for some of the people I've connected with

Yes. About 2.5, maybe 3 times. (What? I'm extremely observant, have a bitchin' memory and I get out a lot. Our kind also have a few personality quirks which make them pretty easy to ferret out.)
Bottom line is, they'll never know.

Nevertheless, thank you for being cool about it, and *not* being the guy who immediately corners them and offers to lick their undies until the color runs...because you know they're out there.

A guy that was in some early WAM clips was a bartender at a local bar. I recognized him but didn't say anything. I could have brought up the subject in an indirect way (we briefly discussed the movie that was playing in the bar) and we were the only people in the bar, so maybe it wouldn't have been awkward. I didn't know until several years later that he was at the center of a local WAM scene that I was unaware of at the time.

I used to work in the same office as a model who did a few scenes with Messyworld. Didn't know her or anything, still felt a bit odd though!

I've also seen a few Mostwam models walking around town, always have to do a double take!

I've been recognized but I kind of like it. Just not on a mass scale. I'm Not the most normal dude but I've only had it happen twice and one person was just like whatever. The other dude was like I HAVE to do this with you. And we did in college...a lot....

But every time I recognize somebody I respect their privacy. But.... I also understand that first hump a freak out It's often just a reaction people rehearse but really they want to be open about it to dudes who understand. So I'm up front about it and then I let them decide. My job is to present the information that I recognize them and it's their right to do with that information whatever they want after that once they stop freaking out if that happens.

Always offer openness to mess around or talk about it or whatever they're comfortable with and I give the option where I just flip a switch and forget that it ever happened. Literally etch-a-sketch. Then assure them that being recognized is like winning the lottery in a bad way. And the odds of it happening again are dramatically lowered now that you've won once by getting recognized....

But to circle back, getting recognized and seeing a dude just go into a mode like a gazelle seeing a lion is a special kind of initiation to a fun ass time that I enjoy A LOT.

Whether the dude wants to try to dominate or worship whatever I am doesn't matter if he never knows we're both mess addicts.

It depends on your intention. I wear a clown face to hide my identity. If it's on here the chance is the interests are shared. If something turned into a bad experience, it would be the end if my participation on here. Just my opinion

I have recognised someone on another forum (which means there is a slight possibility they have recognised me). I have not made contact but if I did it would be via that forum.

I cannot say it has happened where I've recognized someone, but it sounds absolutely potentially terrifying and is a huge reason why my face will never be on here. Not that it can't work and be a positive experience, but on the whole it sounds mortifying.

So, I have moved in a number of different circles over the past 10 years or so - and I can think of 5 different occasions...

The first was a model on here and no longer part of the scene. We met in a nightclub, hit it off and even dated a few times. Never told her I knew about her other life and she never mentioned it.

I have 2 instances of where a friend (different friend in each case) introduced me to their wife or girlfriend and on both occasions I knew exactly who they were. In both cases I had videos on my hard drive of my friends' partner completely naked!

One was a ex-girlfriend of mine - we were together for about 5 years, then one day she turned up in a couple of videos on here! That was very, very weird!

And the last was a girl who actually was complaining to me at work (she was the customer) and the whole time I'm thinking "you made less of a fuss when someone poured a bucket of gunge over your head than this!"

On every occasion I have never revealed I know what they do / did.

Nb - my mate and his girlfriend aren't together anymore so don't see her, but the other guy and his other half - yep, still together and yep, still a bit weird!

Last year I was in a comedy club in London and one of the stand up comedienne's in London was a model who appeared for a while on here.
She actually talked about being a stripper in the routine but no mention of the WAM.