notagain said: Do you like prom queen humiliation? Scenes where the prom queen gets messy 'punishment'?
There was a scene on old Messyworld where the model gets whisked off to prom but instead gets gunged in her "prom dress" and that scene was spank material for me more times than I can count.
I simply adore the combination of high expectations and slimy outcome... I see others love it too, so why is it we don't get more scenes in this direction?
Allow me to explain. I absolutely *love* seeing a messy prom dress. One of my favorite scenes for that is Manu's Messy Prom from wamphotography.com What I don't like is wam being used as punishment or for humiliation purposes. I prefer to see the girl really enjoying it and having fun.
I'd love to know how you get hold of all these dresses so easily lol. Local dress shop BOGO? Great luck at Goodwill? Are you like a seasoned bridesmaid at this point?
I'd love to know how you get hold of all these dresses so easily lol. Local dress shop BOGO? Great luck at Goodwill? Are you like a seasoned bridesmaid at this point?
We get most of them from online resell shops actually. Some are new but all are at least like new and that is what makes ruining them so much fun
A prom dress with glitter, with a choker necklace or a silk scarf, earrings, high heels, red lipstick in the lips... It's just a dream watching all this beauty receiving a pie in the face.
Allow me to explain. I absolutely *love* seeing a messy prom dress. One of my favorite scenes for that is Manu's Messy Prom from wamphotography.com What I don't like is wam being used as punishment or for humiliation purposes. I prefer to see the girl really enjoying it and having fun.
This exactly. "Comeuppance" scenarios do nothing for me, but I'm happy they make other people happy. Personally I like consensual WAM.
One scenario I increasingly like is when the WAM is an unironic prize that is known in advance. So for example in this context it's a genuine honor to be named Prom Queen, but as a send-off for the evening we'll be ruining your makeup and dress. The excitement of winning mixed with the nervous anticipation of getting messy can be really fun.
I don't mean punishment in the real sense of the word. I simply like when she shows discomfort. If she shows enjoyment, it completely ruins the tension. Whether she derives sexual arousal from being humiliated or not, is irrelevant to my enjoyment. However, if she does, it's a win-win situation. Of course, it has to be consentual, either way. Pretending or not...
Allow me to explain. I absolutely *love* seeing a messy prom dress. One of my favorite scenes for that is Manu's Messy Prom from wamphotography.com What I don't like is wam being used as punishment or for humiliation purposes. I prefer to see the girl really enjoying it and having fun.
This exactly. "Comeuppance" scenarios do nothing for me, but I'm happy they make other people happy. Personally I like consensual WAM.
One scenario I increasingly like is when the WAM is an unironic prize that is known in advance. So for example in this context it's a genuine honor to be named Prom Queen, but as a send-off for the evening we'll be ruining your makeup and dress. The excitement of winning mixed with the nervous anticipation of getting messy can be really fun.
How come it's okay to talk about this or for producers to make these kinds of videos, or other ones w/ models dressed as school girls? Meanwhile, it's against the rules to post mainstream shows with exclusively adults if somehow the show is "aimed at children", which is including shows like Domingo Legal or Esto es Guerra?
I'd love to know how you get hold of all these dresses so easily lol. Local dress shop BOGO? Great luck at Goodwill? Are you like a seasoned bridesmaid at this point?
We get most of them from online resell shops actually. Some are new but all are at least like new and that is what makes ruining them so much fun
It's hilarious to me thinking that whoever is selling these dresses to you is like "man they're gonna have a great time at that function and they're gonna look like a mf queen" (which you 100% do, don't get me wrong about that) and then you're on the other end taking it out of the package wondering what sort of substance you're gonna cover it in.
I'd love to know how you get hold of all these dresses so easily lol. Local dress shop BOGO? Great luck at Goodwill? Are you like a seasoned bridesmaid at this point?
We get most of them from online resell shops actually. Some are new but all are at least like new and that is what makes ruining them so much fun
It's hilarious to me thinking that whoever is selling these dresses to you is like "man they're gonna have a great time at that function and they're gonna look like a mf queen" (which you 100% do, don't get me wrong about that) and then you're on the other end taking it out of the package wondering what sort of substance you're gonna cover it in.
Indeed. We have thought about sending a picture of Kate in the trashed dress back to the seller just for fun. See what they think of the new look. We've only thought about it in our messy minds - never actually did it.
I'd love to know how you get hold of all these dresses so easily lol. Local dress shop BOGO? Great luck at Goodwill? Are you like a seasoned bridesmaid at this point?
We get most of them from online resell shops actually. Some are new but all are at least like new and that is what makes ruining them so much fun
It's hilarious to me thinking that whoever is selling these dresses to you is like "man they're gonna have a great time at that function and they're gonna look like a mf queen" (which you 100% do, don't get me wrong about that) and then you're on the other end taking it out of the package wondering what sort of substance you're gonna cover it in.
Indeed. We have thought about sending a picture of Kate in the trashed dress back to the seller just for fun. See what they think of the new look. We've only thought about it in our messy minds - never actually did it.
They would probably be upset. And you could say: "Nothing personal, it's just business"
I'd love to know how you get hold of all these dresses so easily lol. Local dress shop BOGO? Great luck at Goodwill? Are you like a seasoned bridesmaid at this point?
We get most of them from online resell shops actually. Some are new but all are at least like new and that is what makes ruining them so much fun
It's hilarious to me thinking that whoever is selling these dresses to you is like "man they're gonna have a great time at that function and they're gonna look like a mf queen" (which you 100% do, don't get me wrong about that) and then you're on the other end taking it out of the package wondering what sort of substance you're gonna cover it in.
Indeed. We have thought about sending a picture of Kate in the trashed dress back to the seller just for fun. See what they think of the new look. We've only thought about it in our messy minds - never actually did it.
Step 1: take pic of Kate in the trashed dress.
Step 2: clean the dress as best as you can. Take a picture when done.
Step 3: send both pics back saying "hey so we kinda got in a fender bender with a garbage truck/bakery truck/paint truck/crapped on by a deer after you hit it while driving with the top down* and this happened but the dress was so high quality everything came right off!"
Another fun idea is you buy one of those cheap mass made dresses off Amazon, do a scene, and then put mess pick and-dress cleaned-off pic on Amazon in the reviews with some made up story about how you were doing some sort of photoshoot that got out of hand, but guess what! The dress washed right off! And see what the responses are.
* this happened to my cousin once, and no I'm not joking.
This is one of many things in the "to be edited" pile. Unlike the latest shoot, this one should be tame enough to post on YouTube when it is done (no bra/panty filling).
notagain said: I don't mean punishment in the real sense of the word. I simply like when she shows discomfort. If she shows enjoyment, it completely ruins the tension. Whether she derives sexual arousal from being humiliated or not, is irrelevant to my enjoyment. However, if she does, it's a win-win situation. Of course, it has to be consentual, either way. Pretending or not...
Oh yeah, I wasn't suggesting that anyone likes actual non-consensual WAM (at least I hope not). But our preferences do differ - I don't like humiliation or discomfort. I don't really like enthusiastic enjoyment either, but she does have to know what's coming and be OK with it on some level. Reluctant nods, nervous laughter, more laughs after the fact, that sort of thing. I think that's what @snakeeyes meant too. Not that there's anything wrong with humiliation/punishment WAM.
gooeypiefight said: I'd love to see a prom pie fight. Three ladies dressed to the nines in their best prom wear getting into a 3 stooges style pie fight.
It's only two people but there's a evening-gown-messy-fight scene on Formal Pies that's like a couple parts long if IIRC between Shonen and Lynn. Both dresses are covered from head to toe.
notagain said: I don't mean punishment in the real sense of the word. I simply like when she shows discomfort. If she shows enjoyment, it completely ruins the tension. Whether she derives sexual arousal from being humiliated or not, is irrelevant to my enjoyment. However, if she does, it's a win-win situation. Of course, it has to be consentual, either way. Pretending or not...
I would be more than happy to wear prom or wedding dress and gets messy punishment or humiliation ! I already ruined quite a few of them and have plenty more !
notagain said: I don't mean punishment in the real sense of the word. I simply like when she shows discomfort. If she shows enjoyment, it completely ruins the tension. Whether she derives sexual arousal from being humiliated or not, is irrelevant to my enjoyment. However, if she does, it's a win-win situation. Of course, it has to be consentual, either way. Pretending or not...
This is so true! I was having a messy session with my wife just the other day and she was protesting, as I took the lid off a second tub of margarine, that surely I'd already ruined her hair sufficiently by rubbing the contents of the first tub into it. Then she laughed and said "Of course, if I really wanted you to stop, I'd just have to say how I love having margarine in my hair and that I use it as conditioner all the time". She was, of course, absolutely right. I wouldn't want to humiliate her, but equally, if what I was doing was entirely welcome it wouldn't be as exciting.
notagain said: I don't mean punishment in the real sense of the word. I simply like when she shows discomfort. If she shows enjoyment, it completely ruins the tension. Whether she derives sexual arousal from being humiliated or not, is irrelevant to my enjoyment. However, if she does, it's a win-win situation. Of course, it has to be consentual, either way. Pretending or not...
This is so true! I was having a messy session with my wife just the other day and she was protesting, as I took the lid off a second tub of margarine, that surely I'd already ruined her hair sufficiently by rubbing the contents of the first tub into it. Then she laughed and said "Of course, if I really wanted you to stop, I'd just have to say how I love having margarine in my hair and that I use it as conditioner all the time". She was, of course, absolutely right. I wouldn't want to humiliate her, but equally, if what I was doing was entirely welcome it wouldn't be as exciting.
First time I did it with a partner, I was totally blocked, as if the fact that it was happening for real somehow neutralized it. I thought it would be amazing, but it was strange and felt funny. Not sexy. I didn't even get to the point of telling her what I wanted, i.e. that she shouldn't like it. WAM to me is still a photo/video thing...
notagain said: First time I did it with a partner, I was totally blocked, as if the fact that it was happening for real somehow neutralized it. I thought it would be amazing, but it was strange and felt funny. Not sexy. I didn't even get to the point of telling her what I wanted, i.e. that she shouldn't like it. WAM to me is still a photo/video thing...
That's really interesting. I do know what you mean, actually. I've found there are some things I might search out online that would just feel wrong done with my partner. I think it's because there's (obviously) a huge emotional overlay with a partner - you're worrying about "Is she enjoying it, is this ok with her" etc in a way which you don't worry about when you're watching a video. But when you get it right together it is enormous fun with a partner.
For example, my partner is not naturally "submissive", and wouldn't find humiliating scenarios sexy, so even though I might enjoy these situations in the abstract, when applied to her it would feel totally wrong, and, as you say, actually be a turn off. Fortunately for me she has come to quite enjoy straightforward WAM and we've gradually expanded our horizons over the years so it's now fun for both of us to do things that I'd have been quite hesitant to tackle a few years ago - the margarine shampoo I mentioned above is probably an example. Maybe good to start small and build up.