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"Post-mess hugging"
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A small thing I've seen in a few WAM vids over the years and which I think is a bit under appreciated is when the victim of the mess hugs the perpetrator or someone else who has managed to stay clean, getting them at least somewhat messy.
It would be cool to see this used a bit more often, in videos where one party gets messy and the other stays clean.
It would be cool to see this used a bit more often, in videos where one party gets messy and the other stays clean.
joeschmo said: A small thing I've seen in a few WAM vids over the years and which I think is a bit under appreciated is when the victim of the mess hugs the perpetrator or someone else who has managed to stay clean, getting them at least somewhat messy.
It would be cool to see this used a bit more often, in videos where one party gets messy and the other stays clean.
It would be cool to see this used a bit more often, in videos where one party gets messy and the other stays clean.
Same. I'm surprised most couples/groups don't have extra or "behind the scenes" footage where they let the other get them messy (among other things). I mean, as long as they're messy anyway and there are some that are into it, have a package option where you can either buy just the one getting messy or for a little extra watch the fun afterwards.
joeschmo said: A small thing I've seen in a few WAM vids over the years and which I think is a bit under appreciated is when the victim of the mess hugs the perpetrator or someone else who has managed to stay clean, getting them at least somewhat messy.
It would be cool to see this used a bit more often, in videos where one party gets messy and the other stays clean.
It would be cool to see this used a bit more often, in videos where one party gets messy and the other stays clean.
Glad you brought that up in the bdsm community their is this thing called aftercare where you could what you just despot even had a towel to clean them up with have a snack or something to give them while holding space for them in that moment
Paint with play and surrender
I'm a huge sucker for intimate aftercare as a reward for putting up with my "abuse." I want to see more of this. Really adds some life and some flavor to WAM. I like the feeling of hugging someone after I'm done with them so they feel like they're safe, but it also let's them know that they're "mine." There's just nothing quite like wrapping someone up in your arms so they can't escape, but they don't even want to. It relaxes them. And I love the idea of the pie dom getting a little messy, too, especially while he's hugging someone tightly. It shows that deep down he sees his "victim" as an equal, and there's something really sexy about him choosing to go to that level. Plus getting held makes the sub want to come back for more. Many simply can't resist.
I'd also like to see more people do some teasing and commentary when they're giving/receiving pies. Maybe even beg a little. Making people squirm is a delight. (All with consent, of course). I especially love when the pie recipient gets a little sassy with me so it's more satisfying when I cream them since they deserve it and know they deserve it.
I'd also like to see more people do some teasing and commentary when they're giving/receiving pies. Maybe even beg a little. Making people squirm is a delight. (All with consent, of course). I especially love when the pie recipient gets a little sassy with me so it's more satisfying when I cream them since they deserve it and know they deserve it.
Burg42 said: I'm a huge sucker for intimate aftercare as a reward for putting up with my "abuse." I want to see more of this. Really adds some life and some flavor to WAM. I like the feeling of hugging someone after I'm done with them so they feel like they're safe, but it also let's them know that they're "mine." There's just nothing quite like wrapping someone up in your arms so they can't escape, but they don't even want to. It relaxes them. And I love the idea of the pie dom getting a little messy, too, especially while he's hugging someone tightly. It shows that deep down he sees his "victim" as an equal, and there's something really sexy about him choosing to go to that level. Plus getting held makes the sub want to come back for more. Many simply can't resist.
I'd also like to see more people do some teasing and commentary when they're giving/receiving pies. Maybe even beg a little. Making people squirm is a delight. (All with consent, of course). I especially love when the pie recipient gets a little sassy with me so it's more satisfying when I cream them since they deserve it and know they deserve it.
I'd also like to see more people do some teasing and commentary when they're giving/receiving pies. Maybe even beg a little. Making people squirm is a delight. (All with consent, of course). I especially love when the pie recipient gets a little sassy with me so it's more satisfying when I cream them since they deserve it and know they deserve it.
Just to say, as someone who's mainly into being a pie target, that all these "aftercare" ideas sound great to me. And not really aftercare, but I also like the idea of sassing whoever's holding the pies in full knowledge of the likely consequences. . . . .
joeschmo said: A small thing I've seen in a few WAM vids over the years and which I think is a bit under appreciated is when the victim of the mess hugs the perpetrator or someone else who has managed to stay clean, getting them at least somewhat messy.
It would be cool to see this used a bit more often, in videos where one party gets messy and the other stays clean.
It would be cool to see this used a bit more often, in videos where one party gets messy and the other stays clean.
Having been in the fortunate position to have been at several shoots over the years, the "gang up on the hanger-on when he gets a pic with us" was actually more a case of "careful, don't want to get you messy!"
