I have a girlfriend coming over next week, I was lucky enough to discover last time she was here that she seems to share our messy love. we played with a chocolate cream desert on my kitchen floor, rubbing it on each other and then we had sex.
for her next visit i've got a pool that i'm going to stick on top of my spare bed (It should pretty much over it), shes happy for me to tie her up, blind fold her and surprise her! but last time she was here she asked me not to let any of the chocolate get in her vagina, she was clearly worried about it causing her problems. i really want to fill her panties with cake and custard though and then obviously have a lot of fun any advice?
But seriously, wait til she is comfortable with things downstairs. I've only had one lady friend have any problems (yeast unleashed from the east, if you get my drift), and that was only one time and solved with a little post coitus douche. Best thing to do is talk with her , talk with her, and then talk some more. Don't try to win an argument as much as come to a consensus. Tell her what fills your gravy boat and find a way to do it while she is comfortable with the whole endeavor. It'll pay dividends in the future.