Hello, all. I've recently taken on a new relationship with someone I met through online dating. Turns out she has a kinky side to her, but she is very OCD, wanting everything clean and she gets anxious if something is dirty. When I found that out, I didn't have high hopes for the WAM side of things.

However, as our love for each other has grown, she wanted to try it out because she knew it turned me on.

So, on New Year's Eve, she sent me on a mission to grab large restaurant cans of chocolate pudding. (Side note: If any of you have a "Fareway" grocery store in your area or state, they carry these cans at about $6.99 - $7.99 each...I was able to grab 3 of them! And they can special order!)

We set up the tarps and everything and we incorporated some bondage play. After we were done, we did some "aftercare" and talked about what had just happened. She said she loved me massaging the pudding into her, especially her chest, and she also loved the feel of the weight of it on her.

Last night for my birthday, we talked about doing pies. So we baked just two frozen pie crusts, filled it with some leftover pudding, and topped both with a small tub of whipped cream. I smashed one in her face, and she loved it. I went down on her and instructed her to push the other one in her own face when she was going to cum. She did as she was told, and loved it more...to the point where she texted me this morning that we need to do it again but with more pies. She explained that she loved the weight of it on her head and face, which made her feel weightless, but at the same time was a nice weight that was also relaxing. She loved how much it turned me on, too.

The reason I'm bringing this up is to hopefully give you all more confidence and maybe even a few pointers on how to talk with your partner about this stuff. I started at "probably not going to do WAM with her" and quickly progressed to "Let's do more stuff with more pies."

I'm not the greatest looking guy in the world, so the fact that I was able to find someone that was willing to try it out and now wants to do more, I hope, gives some of you that "push" to bring it up with your S.O. if you haven't already.

Feel free to message me if you have any questions...with her permission, I'll upload a few pics a little later I took of our pudding session.

Congrats!! It always brings me happiness to see someone's story of success here, and I think it does a lot of hearts good to read this sort of thing.

Women who will do WAM with their partner aren't unicorns, they're just human, like all of us. Granted some women simply WON'T be into it. I think JaMC put it best here.

--- This goes out to all you people that have posted or I have talked to publicly or privately here, and to all of you who may read this but never post. Those of you who are sad that WAM isn't part of your life. ---

There's a lot of sadness and desperation in these forums, and a lot from people who feel guilty or ashamed to post, some who lurk and for whatever reason don't feel they can make a user on here. I've been there, I still struggle to not go back there. I still occasionally end up there, and I've dragged other people down with my bouts of depression over it.

The best advice I can give others going through this is to recognize the second you're having a self deprecating thought. When this happens, take a moment and think of something that you have to be thankful for. Remember there are other things that bring you joy and meaning.

Excellent! Congrats to you for helping your girlfriend to embrace WAM... and more importantly, well done being sensitive to her needs and figuring out how to make the experience enjoyable for her. So many people don't take the time to understand and care about their partners as human beings rather than mess targets.

Nice story, thanks for sharing. I used to see a girl quite a few years ago who I managed to introduce into wam, with shaving cream pies.

She I liked the feel of baby oil being poured over her while she was squeezed into a slightly too tight French maids uniform I had bought her, then it progressed to foam, then being pelted with about 20 pies!

thanks for sharing!