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"Paint fight advice"
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Good day all, hope you are all well.
So after me telling my fiancé about my fetish she does thinks it's weird but at the same time harmless, she is french so I think culturally they are a little more 'normal' should we say? When it comes to this type of topic, this is really out there for her.
She has agreed to have a paint fight with me when we can get the time as she said it does sound fun, obviously I am the one who has to organise everything but here's a few questions I have that I'm not sure about.
My plan is to clear the bedroom of everything, I've got a 2m X 2m crash mat that I plan to use of the floor in case of any accidents. I am going to get 10 X 5 litre bottles of non toxic ready mix paint.
Is this the best paint to use?
What is the best way for me to protect the room?
What paint is safe in the private areas?
Does anybody have any suggestions?
What kind of games could we incorporate to make it fun?
Will I regret it afterwards because of the huge clean up job?
How would you go about this?
Looking forward to hearing everyone's answer.
Jonjon
So after me telling my fiancé about my fetish she does thinks it's weird but at the same time harmless, she is french so I think culturally they are a little more 'normal' should we say? When it comes to this type of topic, this is really out there for her.
She has agreed to have a paint fight with me when we can get the time as she said it does sound fun, obviously I am the one who has to organise everything but here's a few questions I have that I'm not sure about.
My plan is to clear the bedroom of everything, I've got a 2m X 2m crash mat that I plan to use of the floor in case of any accidents. I am going to get 10 X 5 litre bottles of non toxic ready mix paint.
Is this the best paint to use?
What is the best way for me to protect the room?
What paint is safe in the private areas?
Does anybody have any suggestions?
What kind of games could we incorporate to make it fun?
Will I regret it afterwards because of the huge clean up job?
How would you go about this?
Looking forward to hearing everyone's answer.
Jonjon
Sounds fun.
It will get everywhere. You can get rolls of polythene dust sheet. Tape this everywhere - including the ceiling. Also, make sure you line all footways to the washing area with sheets or towels. Protect any door jambs you might come into contact with on the way as some dyes even in non toxic paint like red and purple can stain gloss/eggshell woodwork paint and you'll have to repaint.
It will get everywhere. You can get rolls of polythene dust sheet. Tape this everywhere - including the ceiling. Also, make sure you line all footways to the washing area with sheets or towels. Protect any door jambs you might come into contact with on the way as some dyes even in non toxic paint like red and purple can stain gloss/eggshell woodwork paint and you'll have to repaint.
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Seconds everything Trouso said, and would add, in terms of protection, you're effectivley building Dexter's kill room, you want to be that effective in preventing spillage. Messy stuff will always go *much* further than you expect it to.
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If it's going to be a free for all fight (rather than controlled pouring over each other) it might be worth considering some goggles for eye protection. For a first time you really want to make it as fun as possible for her, and paint in the eye is not fun!
Good luck and hope you both have an amazing time.
Good luck and hope you both have an amazing time.
First thing first- take a read of the Spotless Sploshing blog- it's a goldmine of tips and tricks learned from a very experienced member of our community. Your partner may want to know it also has a whole chapter on caring for one's lady parts too.
Use children's poster paint- it's fully non toxic and designed to be washable. As a bonus it's readily available in squirty bottles.
(In terms of one's privates, I've ended up with it under my foreskin and had no issues. However everyone is different and some people have different sensitivitys to the various pigments used).
Just a heads up- it can still stain clothes and furnishings. And it's certainly easiest to clean up when its still wet.
Also don't just tarp your playroom- make sure you protect the floor and lower half of the walls all the way to the shower. Be ready to find it in odd places too- door handles, toilet flush etc.
Look out for your partner, and look after her. Keep some flannels/face towels in easy reach- very useful for wiping eyes/mouth.
You may want some safewords so you both know when to tone it down slightly or when someone needs it to fully stop.
(My partner and I use traffic light colours; Green for keep going, Orange for "my limit, take it a little slower", Redlight is stop and check in. RedSTOP is stop and untie me now).
For disposal- scoop as much as you can into a bucket, dilute with water and flush down the toilet. Or use a container with a lid and take it to a household waste centre.
Use children's poster paint- it's fully non toxic and designed to be washable. As a bonus it's readily available in squirty bottles.
(In terms of one's privates, I've ended up with it under my foreskin and had no issues. However everyone is different and some people have different sensitivitys to the various pigments used).
Just a heads up- it can still stain clothes and furnishings. And it's certainly easiest to clean up when its still wet.
Also don't just tarp your playroom- make sure you protect the floor and lower half of the walls all the way to the shower. Be ready to find it in odd places too- door handles, toilet flush etc.
Look out for your partner, and look after her. Keep some flannels/face towels in easy reach- very useful for wiping eyes/mouth.
You may want some safewords so you both know when to tone it down slightly or when someone needs it to fully stop.
(My partner and I use traffic light colours; Green for keep going, Orange for "my limit, take it a little slower", Redlight is stop and check in. RedSTOP is stop and untie me now).
For disposal- scoop as much as you can into a bucket, dilute with water and flush down the toilet. Or use a container with a lid and take it to a household waste centre.
Talk about in at the deep end! I think a paint "fight" - as in paint being thrown or squirted everywhere - is quite ambitious for a first joint WAM experience. It needs a lot of work "proofing" the room, and if it gets too vigorous there's a significant risk of paint going, for example, into eyes, which is not pleasant.
Something I've done with my wife is set up a scenario where we're "decorating". You can have brushes, rollers, and lot of paint around, and even be nominally "painting" a sheet of cardboard or something. Then one of you gets paint on the other "by accident", the other retaliates, and you can happily brush / spread / pour paint over each other tit for tat for as long as you want. The advantages of this over the sort of free for all that I think many of us imagine when you say "paint fight" are many. Firstly you can keep the paint fairly well contained - you can even do the whole thing just in a big paddling pool in your bedroom if you want. Secondly you're more controlled in terms of where the paint goes on each other - you may want to avoid eyes, mouth etc. And thirdly, it's actually very sensual spreading paint over each other - as this scenario progresses it moves very easily into a more "intimate" situation, which is perhaps not so easy if you're both on opposite sides of the room throwing paint around!
The suggestion of children's poster paint is reasonable - it certainly seems pretty harmless. The light colours often seem a bit "thin", though, and the dark colours do tend to leave a slight tint on the skin - not bad, but enough for my wife to complain that she still looks slightly grey, or green, or blue etc even after a thorough wash off. It may be that dry (as in non oily) skin is more prone to this. Because of this we've recently tended to use white emulsion paint, which covers far better than the rather watery looking light coloured poster paints, seems fine even on "sensitive" parts of the body (though it stings eyes), and washes off easily.
Incidentally, the 10x 5 litres of paint you suggest is a shed load of paint! Just for guidance, a couple of litres of emulsion is plenty to completely cover an average person from head to toe. Sure, have a bit more of you want it to soak into clothing, etc, but I think 50 litres would be massive overkill, and just be a pain to get rid of!
Final tip - warm it up first (stand it on a radiator, in a hot bath, in the microwave - with care). Nothing kills the mood more than finding your both shivering with cold, and you will get cold once your both covered. For the same reason, make sure the room is warm.
Good luck, enjoy, and make it such a fun experience that she wants to do it again and again...!
Something I've done with my wife is set up a scenario where we're "decorating". You can have brushes, rollers, and lot of paint around, and even be nominally "painting" a sheet of cardboard or something. Then one of you gets paint on the other "by accident", the other retaliates, and you can happily brush / spread / pour paint over each other tit for tat for as long as you want. The advantages of this over the sort of free for all that I think many of us imagine when you say "paint fight" are many. Firstly you can keep the paint fairly well contained - you can even do the whole thing just in a big paddling pool in your bedroom if you want. Secondly you're more controlled in terms of where the paint goes on each other - you may want to avoid eyes, mouth etc. And thirdly, it's actually very sensual spreading paint over each other - as this scenario progresses it moves very easily into a more "intimate" situation, which is perhaps not so easy if you're both on opposite sides of the room throwing paint around!
The suggestion of children's poster paint is reasonable - it certainly seems pretty harmless. The light colours often seem a bit "thin", though, and the dark colours do tend to leave a slight tint on the skin - not bad, but enough for my wife to complain that she still looks slightly grey, or green, or blue etc even after a thorough wash off. It may be that dry (as in non oily) skin is more prone to this. Because of this we've recently tended to use white emulsion paint, which covers far better than the rather watery looking light coloured poster paints, seems fine even on "sensitive" parts of the body (though it stings eyes), and washes off easily.
Incidentally, the 10x 5 litres of paint you suggest is a shed load of paint! Just for guidance, a couple of litres of emulsion is plenty to completely cover an average person from head to toe. Sure, have a bit more of you want it to soak into clothing, etc, but I think 50 litres would be massive overkill, and just be a pain to get rid of!
Final tip - warm it up first (stand it on a radiator, in a hot bath, in the microwave - with care). Nothing kills the mood more than finding your both shivering with cold, and you will get cold once your both covered. For the same reason, make sure the room is warm.
Good luck, enjoy, and make it such a fun experience that she wants to do it again and again...!
Reiver2 said: Talk about in at the deep end! I think a paint "fight" - as in paint being thrown or squirted everywhere - is quite ambitious for a first joint WAM experience. It needs a lot of work "proofing" the room, and if it gets too vigorous there's a significant risk of paint going, for example, into eyes, which is not pleasant.
Something I've done with my wife is set up a scenario where we're "decorating". You can have brushes, rollers, and lot of paint around, and even be nominally "painting" a sheet of cardboard or something. Then one of you gets paint on the other "by accident", the other retaliates, and you can happily brush / spread / pour paint over each other tit for tat for as long as you want. The advantages of this over the sort of free for all that I think many of us imagine when you say "paint fight" are many. Firstly you can keep the paint fairly well contained - you can even do the whole thing just in a big paddling pool in your bedroom if you want. Secondly you're more controlled in terms of where the paint goes on each other - you may want to avoid eyes, mouth etc. And thirdly, it's actually very sensual spreading paint over each other - as this scenario progresses it moves very easily into a more "intimate" situation, which is perhaps not so easy if you're both on opposite sides of the room throwing paint around!
The suggestion of children's poster paint is reasonable - it certainly seems pretty harmless. The light colours often seem a bit "thin", though, and the dark colours do tend to leave a slight tint on the skin - not bad, but enough for my wife to complain that she still looks slightly grey, or green, or blue etc even after a thorough wash off. It may be that dry (as in non oily) skin is more prone to this. Because of this we've recently tended to use white emulsion paint, which covers far better than the rather watery looking light coloured poster paints, seems fine even on "sensitive" parts of the body (though it stings eyes), and washes off easily.
Incidentally, the 10x 5 litres of paint you suggest is a shed load of paint! Just for guidance, a couple of litres of emulsion is plenty to completely cover an average person from head to toe. Sure, have a bit more of you want it to soak into clothing, etc, but I think 50 litres would be massive overkill, and just be a pain to get rid of!
Final tip - warm it up first (stand it on a radiator, in a hot bath, in the microwave - with care). Nothing kills the mood more than finding your both shivering with cold, and you will get cold once your both covered. For the same reason, make sure the room is warm.
Good luck, enjoy, and make it such a fun experience that she wants to do it again and again...!
Something I've done with my wife is set up a scenario where we're "decorating". You can have brushes, rollers, and lot of paint around, and even be nominally "painting" a sheet of cardboard or something. Then one of you gets paint on the other "by accident", the other retaliates, and you can happily brush / spread / pour paint over each other tit for tat for as long as you want. The advantages of this over the sort of free for all that I think many of us imagine when you say "paint fight" are many. Firstly you can keep the paint fairly well contained - you can even do the whole thing just in a big paddling pool in your bedroom if you want. Secondly you're more controlled in terms of where the paint goes on each other - you may want to avoid eyes, mouth etc. And thirdly, it's actually very sensual spreading paint over each other - as this scenario progresses it moves very easily into a more "intimate" situation, which is perhaps not so easy if you're both on opposite sides of the room throwing paint around!
The suggestion of children's poster paint is reasonable - it certainly seems pretty harmless. The light colours often seem a bit "thin", though, and the dark colours do tend to leave a slight tint on the skin - not bad, but enough for my wife to complain that she still looks slightly grey, or green, or blue etc even after a thorough wash off. It may be that dry (as in non oily) skin is more prone to this. Because of this we've recently tended to use white emulsion paint, which covers far better than the rather watery looking light coloured poster paints, seems fine even on "sensitive" parts of the body (though it stings eyes), and washes off easily.
Incidentally, the 10x 5 litres of paint you suggest is a shed load of paint! Just for guidance, a couple of litres of emulsion is plenty to completely cover an average person from head to toe. Sure, have a bit more of you want it to soak into clothing, etc, but I think 50 litres would be massive overkill, and just be a pain to get rid of!
Final tip - warm it up first (stand it on a radiator, in a hot bath, in the microwave - with care). Nothing kills the mood more than finding your both shivering with cold, and you will get cold once your both covered. For the same reason, make sure the room is warm.
Good luck, enjoy, and make it such a fun experience that she wants to do it again and again...!
This!
I didn't notice the quantity in the OP. Yes, I think a little overkill with the quantity unless you're having a 50 person paint fight, let alone a play session. Disposal of that will be a real ball ache!
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