Wait - you MARRIED a CrazyGirl?!? Lol Shit, dude - are you legit looking for the video, or just looking to brag? Details, man!
Best sanitized(18+) collection I can think of is in the possession of a chap who was running under the handle of SnakeScotland. https://umd.net/snakescotland If you can connect the blessing of released material w/ an archive holder, well, that would be pretty sweet.
This grail collection had been discussed w/ Snake at length in the old Splosh forums, too, but my most burning question is how Brian managed to talk so many, many girls into getting as filthy as they did. I mean...god-damn.
So I'm with the other guy, is there any way you can get his permission to just have his stuff posted (or placed in UMD store)? If he went so far as to destroy his own copies, I would think that would count as abandonment no? So he shouldn't care anymore right? Mind asking him for all of us???
I loved Brian's CG work. Only complaint would have been that better video quality would have been nice, but for the early days and technology limitations, that was an unreasonable complaint.
I've still got a half dozen of the tapes that have managed to survive, but the requested one doesn't seem to be one of them. The handful I've still got all seem to be from early 2000, and none with Charlie and/or Sami.