Hello! Cat here. I have been in love with WAM for a few years now, but I'm unsure how I want to go about doing it myself! I am MTF transgender and am nervous people wouldn't like my content since i'm not...naturally a female? That being said, I would like a little advice on how to approach that. Also, I'm not really sure what type of supplies I should use! I've always used cake batter but that's getting too suspicious when I buy a ton of boxes at once. I want to do mud stuff as well but I'm not sure where to find mud/clay pits in my area...
I am MTF transgender and am nervous people wouldn't like my content since i'm not...naturally a female? That being said, I would like a little advice on how to approach that.
Share what you do for you, not for others. There are forum options for different groups (trans, male, and female), so post under the appropriate group when showing off your stuff and you'll be fine.
This is the internet, with an endless freedom for people to be anonymous assholes, so just understand not everyone will be welcoming and friendly, but you'll find a number of people in this community who are supportive and helpful because we've been there as well, and want to help.
As for finding mud pits, I'm sure there are a number of folks near your area who could give you tips. Hopefully you'll have luck with that. Sorry we couldn't help you.
Agree with Miffy. I started getting messy because I wanted to, and I posted my content here because I wanted to share it with everyone. It was for me first, the community second. As amateurs, we can do whatever we want and only have to answer to ourselves, so if you feel like posting content, do it! But I would recommend doing what makes YOU happy. The most frequent feedback I receive is that people can tell that I am genuinely enjoying getting messy. That's probably the best way to build an audience... you're enjoying it and so are they.
This fetish is full of niches and preferences ... I know most people aren't interested in my content and that's fine. The same will be true for you, too. But I guarantee that you will find a group of people who will appreciate what you do, regardless of gender, past or present.
As for the cake mix, if you love it, do what I do and buy it in installments! Or order it online from a bulk distributor! I'm a big fan of Webstaurantstore, and you can maybe see if there's a brick-and-mortar GFS in your area, too.
Share what you love. Because if you share what you love to do then it shows. It looks real and it looks great. Remember that if you share what you love, there will always be people who love what your share.
Umd is a quite unique community. Male, female, coed, trans, gay, straight, wet, messy, mud, food,... all this content is shared here criss-cross and all users have their favorite niche. But they will often also like or comment on stuff outside of theire niche because we are all together here for our love of wam.
Ofcourse, there are jerks everywhere most of the people here are a friendly bunch of very helpfull wam lovers.
Buying loads of weird and wonderful stuff all at once like many many boxes of cake batter isn't suspicious, staff really aren't bothered. They'll make friendly conversation with you such as "that's a lot of cakes you're going to be making!" and you just make an equally friendly reply like "it certainly is" or "we're having a party at the weekend!!!" and that's that.
Not everybody will like your content but so what? That's up to them and it makes no difference to you and your enjoyment.
Just-visiting said: Buying loads of weird and wonderful stuff all at once like many many boxes of cake batter isn't suspicious, staff really aren't bothered. They'll make friendly conversation with you such as "that's a lot of cakes you're going to be making!" and you just make an equally friendly reply like "it certainly is" or "we're having a party at the weekend!!!" and that's that.
Not everybody will like your content but so what? That's up to them and it makes no difference to you and your enjoyment.
We never had any weird looks we buying insane amounts of food to play with. Most employees in the shops just scan your stuff and thats it... sometimes they ask whether you are having a party. Just say yes and everything will be fine.
Buying dozens of boxes of cake batter doesn't look weird to anyone other than pervs like us. Most people aren't going to give it a second thought. You be you.
Speaking from experience, people shy away from transgender models if you're trying to sell content or do any modelling (a lot of the producers who I have approached have turned me down outright for being transgender). However, I do tend to get a lot of love when I post photos.
if I can give you an advice, Just be sure to identify as Trans when publishing your stuff, if you do that, you shouldn't have any problem with the rest of the community.