Putting together a Q&A I can use for newbies or people that I am meeting for the first time when planning a session. Do you have any favorite questions you like to ask when getting to know someone before getting messy with them?
I realize this is probably really, really basic, but I'd definitely want to ask
- (1) if they prefer to be fully clothed, partially clothed, or naked - (2) if they have any preferences for whether you're fully clothed, partially clothed, or naked - (3) if they are comfortable (or not) with being touched (and to what extent) during the session - (4) if they have any expectations/limits for overtly erotic/sexual interaction during or after the session
1 - any food allergies we need to be aware of before getting messy with food substances.
2 - preferred footwear? Barefoot is great until you need to walk and things are super slippery
3 - preferred substances to get messy with (sweets, Savory, slime/gunge, non-food)
4 - if wearing contacts, do you have glasses to wear (as I've heard that the gunge can interact weirdly with contacts)?
5 - any preferred actions (or anything you want avoided)? I.e. head dunking, pie sandwich to the head, clothes filling, messy face vs messy body (or all over mess), etc
Feel free to let me know if you have any questions!
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