Hi All,
MJD here.
As those who have been reading the Jessie Health threads know there has been a right rollercoaster and recently the emotions/feelings/illnesses etc have got a bit too much.
So I've deleted the thread.
We're having a break from here,each other etc
I might come on here though as ME (well MJD...ha!ha!) for the fun side of things on here!
I still love her to bits and will be there for her but we both need some space to get better.
Thankyou so much for the help over the last 4 months.
Love ...and I mean that
Mike x

I know that this is a much -needed break, Mike!

Thanks for all the updates and support of Jessie!

Take care, and drop back in here anytime, just for the fun of it!

Good luck to you on getting your batteries recharged! I'll continue to pray for both you and Jessie!

Norman

Mike,
You're totally right to look after yourself and put yourself first for a while. I'm sure that what you have done so far is way beyond call-of-duty for any ordinary mortal, and, if you make yourself ill, that's no good for you, Jesse, or your own parents (I believe you said you had to care for or support them as well?).

I've "been there" with clinical depression, and it was only when I acknowledged the issues that I was able to start sorting things out. But, once I recognised the problem, and had reassurance and a year of CBT, my recovery was quick and permanent. Hopefully, Jesse will soon be making similar real progress, and I wish you and her the best.

Thanks for all the updates, and I hope things work out for the best for both of you.

Take care!

Good luck - sounds like it was all getting a bit intense. It'd be great to have you on here as 'you' when you feel ready.

Thanks Mike

Look ...I exist in my own right....ha!ha!
Thanks everyone.
I'm still a bit confused by todays event to be honest!

Welcome to the UMD as .....yourself, Mike!

Norman

Hi All,
Thanks very much for the comments.
Good last couple of days and I'm now back at my home (only had 8 nights in 4 months there cos of going between my sick parents and Jessie) which is LUXURY!!!
Had a good touch base with Jess last night and today so we can both get on now with concentrating for a couple of weeks on ourselves and our own routine's etc knowing we are still bothered about the other one....perfect.
By the way Jessie's mate Cherry deserves a shout out for helping out this last week.
So hope you are all ok and keep up the positive vibes/prayers etc that Jess keeps progressing and I can get properly re-charged by the beach and sea!!