Funnily enough I get about 75 offers of a guy offering me a 'free session' every year as do most of the girls here. I also get about the same number of guys 'volunteering' to be gunged 'for charity'. Oh yeah I also get double that in guys trying to chat me up/get a date/meet up/chat esp on the Facebook page. Thing is,every single time one guy does any of the above only achieves putting another little dent in my desire to continue with this business. I also get told I shouldn't be in this business if I have feelings like that,we even saw recently on UMD a post that WAM models haven't got a family and other strange comments. Trust me guys,we girls on here DO talk to each other about certain posts and we don't like it. Oh yeah people who ask for their individual fetish after nearly every post is the best way to NEVER make that happen. If you want to be liked book a session or custom,don't argue about the price,be very clear about the exact mess you want,the plot,the outfits-pay for it quickly. Simple really isn't it! Sorry B92-all that wasn't aimed at you! Your question just prompted me to expand a bit on the reality of this business and forum and what happens if you are a model offering a WAM product and much of it is never said! Sorry to hijack your question! I didn't think yiu'd mind after our discussion the other day! Jessie
I assumed not everyone was nice on here because in reality, if it's a fetish, it's a selfish suggestion. I never thought it was plain sailing, but 75% of the time! Either you are very unlucky, or there just aren't that many people who have respect for the male/female models that provide this entertainment for us. I respect everyone who displays WAM, as it's something I thoroughly enjoy, as a fetish, so yes, I'm slightly selfish. But my respect for everyone who puts it here is huge I don't know what I'd do without you!
But boundaries have their limits, and I suppose being to the point, and integral is what you really want, as it's a profession. Business is money at the end of the day, so I can understand your ethic. No problem with hijacking the question Jessie! Nice to see the opinions of a brilliant messy model
Er Jason_K416, I do know that B92 was offering himself as the model for any women with a WAM fetish but you need a reality check if you think any woman on here would need to book and pay for a male WAM model! I've been doing this business for 10 years and worked with loads of models in the WAM world and some other genres. I've talked to loads of girls on her too. In that time there are only two girls who say they genuinely have a wet and messy fetish and both of them charge for the WAM work they do. The contrast is that there are thousands of guys on here wanting to get Wet and Messy with girls so if any genuine girl Wammer's (there aren't many in the real world as opposed to the 'let's pretend' world of selling films etc !) made a post asking for male partners the queue would be a few miles long. I was illustrating that by the number of offers we models get from guys to 'offer their services' Make sense?
Yes he'd still have that problem because even if a girl genuinely had the WAM fetish she could easily have a queue of guys on here to play with for free or as per the norm could easily charge for her time. The guys outnumber the girls. In fact just go through the personals,loads of guys and very few girls. Like I said remember I'm used to tons and tons of messages from misguided men hoping I want to meet them etc so the most honest thing I can do is tell them I'm not interested and WAM isn't a fetish for me just a laugh and also my business. What I haven't said it I also get much ruder requests than just WAM as in then wanting sex etc etc I let Mike answer those ones...ha!ha!
I would cautiously suggest that shooting videos for the gay WAM scene might be a better idea for the user to investigate. But it's likely to be an already saturated (pun not intended) market so unless you've got some really great ideas or look like Ryan Gosling it might be a hard graft. Renting out a 'sploshing space' could be more realistic proposition. If, for example, you invested in a reliable gunge tank you would definitely get some interest because this isn't something folks can just do at home.
Veering off topic slightly, several times I have wanted to post a 'guide to actually having some chance of arranging a session with somebody' in this Personals forum. Way, way too many users with no pictures, no posts and no reputation here slap up a moronic message like 'hey hoo wants 2 host me tmoz night desperate 2 get messy i want u to do x, y and z 2 me for next to nohting in return!!!!!!!' five times in two hours and, surprise surprise, get no reply. Even I, who can host once in a blue moon and could only be said to possess a six pack if it contained guitar strings, get the occasional un-punctuated, faintly demanding message from somebody whose profile has one picture and a single misspelt line of doggerel. This is epically not the way to go about it, people. Some users need to be shown how to establish trust and communication with others before even considering a meeting, whether that's with an established female offering sessions or an ordinary user.
Interesting thread and responses. As a CD i do get a few offeres from male members but they are usually quite vulgar and off topic (the topic being wam). If i had more money to splosh out on the fetish (and was considered female) i would personally be interested in a session with a male model just to keep things simple, to the point, and not have to worry about unwanted behaviour. Of course what would help is personal pictures maybe showing a few wam sessions and a bit of history or reputation as a generally cool person. Hannah x
Yes,guys doing sessions with other guys and CD's I know does happen and I have even assisted two CD's by introducing them to each other. They both paid me for a combined session but then they were to go and meet up themselves. The norm though is neither guy would pay each other. Just mutual fun. As I said though no girl (or maybe 1 in a few million) would pay a guy for WAM and if they were into WAM and found this site all they would to do is post 'girl looking to meet guy for free WAM' and the queue would stretch the length of the country. By the way as a sign of how thick some guys are,when I was really really ill in the secure mental health/eating disorder unit and Mike was posting updates messages would come from guys offering to pie me or gunge me to 'cheer me up'. Yes....really! Not just one guy...quite a few! This sort of crap has happened for years not just to me but most girls on here. The only difference now is me,actually speaking out and revealing some of what has happened and not putting up with it anymore. Best bet if you are a guy is just book an established model and find one who is prepared to do your specified kink (because we differ),then behave yourself,pay promptly,stick to the rules etc and have a great time. Then repeat that. Anyone inappropriate just gets blacklisted and we tip each other off. The great thing is the customers I allow to come back are great because they have good manners,are considerate etc and there is no tension. Respect goes both ways!