I don't wish to sound snarky here but there have been a lot of these threads but no pics of anything happening, no profile pic and I also note you are based nowhere near leeds yet always want to meet there? What is it you intend to actually sessions wise?
Freewam said: I don't wish to sound snarky here but there have been a lot of these threads but no pics of anything happening, no profile pic and I also note you are based nowhere near leeds yet always want to meet there? What is it you intend to actually sessions wise?
Indeed. I replied to this, and it went nowhere.
I respect that you have every right to choose who you organise a session with, but without actually specifying what you want in your posts, and then rejecting people who do reply in an arbitrary way, you're going to continue to fall on hard luck - no matter how many times you bump the thread.
I wish you the best in your search, though it may prove to be a futile endeavour.
I am not going to fund something that I don't think I would enjoy. I have tried to be polite in my correspondence with you.
It really is nothing personal, which is why I find it incredibly odd that that you write with such entitlement.
It's fine you don't want to fund something you don't want. I've had this in the CP field, people wanting me to fund travelling down the country just so that they can do an over the knee spanking... It isn't what I want in the kink so I politely decline,
However, difference is, I have not posted a thread saying I want to do all expenses paid sessions but give no ideas as to what the session entails. Had you put "I want a huge session where X person covers me in X, Y and Z substance wearing A, B and C style outfits." You'd be likely to get more serious replies.
I am not going to fund something that I don't think I would enjoy. I have tried to be polite in my correspondence with you.
It really is nothing personal, which is why I find it incredibly odd that that you write with such entitlement.
No sense of entitlement at all - as I've said I respect that people are free to choose who they meet with. Also, I'd never expect another to cover all the costs, though discussion was cut short before that was even talked about.
You may have been polite, but it is personal. If you're rejecting people who take the time to reply, when you didn't provide any info in the first place on what you're looking for, you're going to struggle. You're posting ads on a classifieds forum, not hiring people for a job.
In my case I even tried to ask what it was you felt made us "not compatible" in your eyes, as I do know others who may have fit the requirements. When the response I get to that is "there will be no more responses", I don't personally call that polite, or feel inclined to make any further effort.
Please don't take this as any kind of attack or attempt to assassinate your character; I'm merely saying how this has come across from the point of view of those replying to you.
All the members of this forum want the community to do well, and for people old and new to this to talk, meet and have a good time - and that is reflected in the replies to this thread.
Love you, too
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