Hi all,

I am looking to have some messy fun in Leeds and would love for you to be part of it! Ideally, this will take place in the next two weeks.

I am the first to acknowledge that a few years ago I didn't commit to this as properly as I should have done but I am super serious about it now.

I am 28, male and more than willing to share pictures via e-mail.

I am more than happy to discuss the format, but ultimately I am looking for good (clean) messy fun!

E-mail me (jamesstrawsurrey@gmail.com) and let's get something planned.

James

Come on people-let's make this happen

Still looking to firm up on a meet.

Send me a message even if you are remotely interested.

I don't wish to sound snarky here but there have been a lot of these threads but no pics of anything happening, no profile pic and I also note you are based nowhere near leeds yet always want to meet there? What is it you intend to actually sessions wise?

Indeed. I replied to this, and it went nowhere.

I respect that you have every right to choose who you organise a session with, but without actually specifying what you want in your posts, and then rejecting people who do reply in an arbitrary way, you're going to continue to fall on hard luck - no matter how many times you bump the thread.

I wish you the best in your search, though it may prove to be a futile endeavour.

I sent you an email, but as yet, have received no reply!

I got rejected too.

Beggars can't be choosers and all that..

it is annoying to see these threads pop up and nothing come of them

Either just after you sent a photo of yourself or wanted to do something other than his "bath of porridge" fantasy by any chance?

Bath of porridge? That'd take some clean up!

Not his type apparently, oh well!

Hi all,

Thanks for your continued discussion.

I am not going to fund something that I don't think I would enjoy. I have tried to be polite in my correspondence with you.

It really is nothing personal, which is why I find it incredibly odd that that you write with such entitlement.

It's fine you don't want to fund something you don't want. I've had this in the CP field, people wanting me to fund travelling down the country just so that they can do an over the knee spanking... It isn't what I want in the kink so I politely decline,

However, difference is, I have not posted a thread saying I want to do all expenses paid sessions but give no ideas as to what the session entails. Had you put "I want a huge session where X person covers me in X, Y and Z substance wearing A, B and C style outfits." You'd be likely to get more serious replies.

No sense of entitlement at all - as I've said I respect that people are free to choose who they meet with. Also, I'd never expect another to cover all the costs, though discussion was cut short before that was even talked about.

You may have been polite, but it is personal. If you're rejecting people who take the time to reply, when you didn't provide any info in the first place on what you're looking for, you're going to struggle. You're posting ads on a classifieds forum, not hiring people for a job.

In my case I even tried to ask what it was you felt made us "not compatible" in your eyes, as I do know others who may have fit the requirements. When the response I get to that is "there will be no more responses", I don't personally call that polite, or feel inclined to make any further effort.

Please don't take this as any kind of attack or attempt to assassinate your character; I'm merely saying how this has come across from the point of view of those replying to you.

All the members of this forum want the community to do well, and for people old and new to this to talk, meet and have a good time - and that is reflected in the replies to this thread.

That's just my two cents anyway...

What kind of thing do you have in mind?