After 40 plus years of being a secret solo wammer, I finally was able to play with someone else. It's too long of a story, but my fiancee and I have been through some stuff lately, the silver lining of which, is that we've bared our souls about a lot of things, including our sexual fetishes, fantasies, etc.

Last night she pied me and covered me with shaving cream and she loved it as of course did I. Not only that, but she thinks we should do it at least once a week! To say I'm overjoyed would be a massive understatement. There are no words for how I'm feeling right now.

In any case, the question now is, because she's willing to participate and get messy some too, is it safe for a woman to get shaving cream (barbasol regular) in her vagina? Would love to hear from someone with firsthand (or as close as one can get) experience.

Thanks!

First off, congratulations! Always brilliant when a partner gets it, and is willing, or even better happy, to indulge.

Regarding shaving foam, everyone is going to be different, so I'd suggest a gentle test with a very small amount first, just to check.

There is general info on sploshing with shaving foam on Candy Custard's blog, which is worth a read for anyone planning to play: https://www.spotlesssploshing.com/post/sploshing-with-shaving-foam-preparation-eliminating-the-residue

Good luck and have fun!

Firstly, I'm so happy for you! Congratulations to not only getting to have the wam experience you've always wanted, but especially to having it with the one person you want to spend the rest of your life with It fills my heart with joy to hear that you've not only overcome your problems, but that she also enjoyed the experience and now your kink is something she wants to participate in with you and now this is something that you both can share. This truly is a very happy occasion and I'm so happy for you both

So I'm sure Candy Custard has great advice on this, I'll just throw my hat in the ring on a few pointers. The first being that every woman's vagina is very unique to them, they will have their own PH balance that will get offset by different things. For me personally, I never get any issues because I get so horny and wet for it that it's constantly washing the mess out of it so I've had no discomfort down there. However, for those who may be more sensitive or if it affects that ph balance, then I recommend she douche afterwards. It can deep clean anything out of her in case that happens. If you get the sensitive skin shaving foam that can help too, it has been okay for me personally. And also, if she wears panties until you guys want penetration, that can help. Keeping a towel handy to wipe down can also help if both of you wipe off before penetration as well. And please beware of graham crust as I've been cut and injured from the friction of it. That's as much as I can think of. I hope this helps and again, congratulations on finding your WAM happiness with your fiance. I hope you have a happy, messy life together!

Can't really help on the shaving cream question, but just wanted to say absolutely delighted for you and hope you guys have a great deal of fun wamming together!

Congrats!!

Not too sure about the shaving cream, the one time we used it it was itching in our eyes.. so we didnt stick to that substance. If you are willing to explore with your partner Methylcellulose or pretty much any slime recipe are safe for internal use. I really suggest reading Candy's blog on the topic as their are many great advices on many substances and cleaning

Cheers!

As a fellow wammer, I'm excited to hear stories like this. Good for you!

Thanks for all the well wishes everyone. I really do feel and appreciate the genuine happiness for me you're expressing.

I've spent many years on here, envious of anyone and everyone that had a partner to share this fetish with, so I feel incredibly lucky for it to have finally worked out for me too. Like I said, over 40 years. So hang in there everyone, there is hope!

We'll definitely check out Candy's blog so thanks for that as well.

This warms meh soul.

This was the good news I needed to hear today!

Congrats on your achievement unlock!

Seems to be par for the course on this thread, but we have no advice on shaving cream but are really happy for you!

My wife has had no problems with shaving cream and sex, whether in the vag or ass. Not a big deal especially in the moment. If you leave it on the face for too long it will start to sting skin and eyes. We've found that Barbasol is much more agreeable than Foamy. We regularly ruin her hair with a whole can of it. Her hair takes it fine... sometimes she says its a little dry for a day and doesn't look as shiny.

Enjoy and make it fun!

Congratulations of popping your partner's messy cherry! It's fantastic when you both have fun trying each other's kinks

Shaving foam is designed to dry out hair and make it brittle (easier shaving)- but can cause dryness and breakage, as well as dry skin. Depends a lot on the brand and sensitivity of the user.

Everyone is different so play it steady and see, and extra conditioner while showering off can never hurt.

My friend-with-benefits eagerly joined in WAM sessions with me, regularly ending up a mountain of shaving foam. Unfortunately, she developed COPD from years of smoking, and also began getting uncomfortable feelings in her genital area so we keep it to a minimum now.
Start off carefully and see where it leads!

Just thought I'd add a little follow up. This was my text conversation with my fiancée the next day. I'm a very lucky man!