Maybe a weird question. But I seem to go in phases with my fetish. There will be a few weeks where I am all about it! Self wamming, buying content etc, then it's fizzles out for awhile then ramps back up. Anyone else experience that?
Yea I find the novelty wears off or my tastes change. If there's no content that appeals to me for a like a few weeks in a row then I end up checking less frequently.
No, it used to be that if the woman wasn't starting off fully clothed, with stockings underneath, slowly revealed along with her underwear, and the mess was gunge or pies and there was full facial coverage I wasn't interested. But the Wam world is so fluid and interesting, that you see things that you wouldn't normally think about, and thanks to Mostwam and others, I discovered tights, putting clothes back on after getting messy, and gunge wrestling turn me on.
Yeah I have my ups and downs with it. Sometimes it feels a lot more intense than others.
A good example is how often I get customs. Sometimes I'll end up ordering a few together quickly and others I can go months without wanting one or having an idea I want to get created.
Yes, my degree of enthusiasm for, and arousal by, wam-play or watching wam media, definitely comes and goes in cycles or waves. Never entirely fades out but I've learned when the urge isn't strong, to just not push it and leave things be till it picks back up naturally again, usually a week or so later. Most things in nature follow cycles so I'm guessing this is just natural.
Yes I find it dampens down occasionally then the urge to watch and participate can become very consuming,on a different fetish I have I found it went away completely for a while due to circumstance and exposure. I have a fetish for wearing and having my wife wear plastic disposable aprons and other semi transparent plastic, black bin bags and similar. I've spent the pandemic working in an elderly care home and at the onset the levels of PPE we were all wearing would have been my dream, but obviously working in such extreme cases has changed this and I guess by association this fetish is not really a fetish anymore.
Yeah, and I don't think that's unusual. Especially as I get older, I'm just not horny ALL THE TIME, just most of the time. Not having a release doesn't really help with that either.
There is a bit of fluctuation week by week as others have said. But does anyone else find that over the years there's a bit of "mess inflation" going on as well. In other words, once we've done something, that no longer seems exciting, and the next thing we do has to be more extreme. So, when we started doing this about twenty years ago, just her dipping her fingers in chocolate and licking them was enough to excite me. Now it's up to the level of complete destruction of clothes, hair and naked body with paint, glue and mud, to give the example of a recent session. I wonder if it's because once something is done, it no longer seems so "naughty". Makes me worry that one day we won't be able to raise the bar any higher and it will all come to a halt (though if we're still finding new ways to do it after twenty years, perhaps I shouldn't worry)!
Love you, too
Not having a release doesn't really help with that either.
