This might be a very weird question but I'm determined to see if I'm not alone.
Wam isn't a very sexual experience for me, like not at all. I love to do it and I love to look at it and I love to chat about it, but I rarely if ever am aroused by it. anyone else like this or am I a lone wolf?
10/7/21, 5:38am: gender changed from female to n/a
midwestmess said: That's an interesting perspective, but unfortunately it's 100% sexual for me. It's tough because I want to be more artistic about my messes and go for more quality sessions. The reality is that I just get so aroused at a new wam idea and when the time comes I just impulsively make it happen.
I'd definitely like to put more thought into it and make my messes a truly enjoyable experience, instead of dealing with the crazy aftermath. Maybe I'll try scaling down, lighting some candles, get in front of a mirror and just relax covered in some nicely textured mess
You should get messy with me then! Hope I can balance it out!
I realised this two days ago when I was in the mud in 2 layers of rainwear. I always thought that the WAMming itself wasn't sexual per se, in the sense of getting an erection etc, but that the excitement comes later when I think back on it and see the pics etc. But now I realise it is sexual, in a different way. How the mud hugs your full body, and your clothes become heavy, it's a whole different kind of arousal that I never experience outside of mud. A kind of arousal that's not focused on genitals, but is sort of spread all over the body. It's not like masturbating, it's a thing on its own. I was sighing and shivering with pleasure.
Raindancer said: I realised this two days ago when I was in the mud in 2 layers of rainwear. I always thought that the WAMming itself wasn't sexual per se, in the sense of getting an erection etc, but that the excitement comes later when I think back on it and see the pics etc. But now I realise it is sexual, in a different way. How the mud hugs your full body, and your clothes become heavy, it's a whole different kind of arousal that I never experience outside of mud. A kind of arousal that's not focused on genitals, but is sort of spread all over the body. It's not like masturbating, it's a thing on its own. I was sighing and shivering with pleasure.
This is a very interesting point! I've never thought of it this way. Quite an artistic way to describe it, something I can't do with my English skill. Ha!
For me it's mixed. Sometimes it's very arousing while another time I just enjoy the feeling. How is it dir you the other way? You enjoy if others get aroused by your work?
For me it comes down to before and after UMD. Before UMD - I grew up watching gameshows, novels and comedy shows. I always felt something different when I saw pretty women get well pied but at that time I just saw it for fun.
After UMD - I came to this forum in 2005 and everything was new to me. A lot of sites like PieFightGirls, PieVids, WAMF, a lot of sexy women, in sexy clothes or naked, all type of content. When I turned 18, I realized it became a fetish, I think about it almost all the time.
I voted 50 - 70% but the truth is I never had the opportunity to actually do it in sex, i hope a can do it one day.
As an analogy, compare skinny dipping with someone and taking a shower with someone. They both involve getting naked and wet, but skinny dipping is fun whereas taking a shower is erotic. It depends what you're doing, e.g. splashing someone with water vs running your hands over various parts of their body.
I think the same applies to WAM, but I don't think a percentage is meaningful. Certain things will always be sexual and other things will never be.
I went for 50-70%, although I'm not sure I could put a figure on it. I found the idea of getting messy exciting in a non-sexual way long before I even hit puberty, although at that point it quickly became a massive turn-on. I've mellowed out since then though, and while it's usually a turn on I definitely enjoy getting messy for its own sake too.
It really depends on the context I think. WAM for me is like a feeling enhancer, turning something already sexy into something super-sexy. If I was gunged by a man however, or even by a woman in a non-sexual context I think I'd enjoy the experience but I don't think I'd be turned on by it. I just like getting messy.
I don't think I could ever not be at least a little turned on seeing a woman get messy though.
thedriver said: For me it's mixed. Sometimes it's very arousing while another time I just enjoy the feeling. How is it dir you the other way? You enjoy if others get aroused by your work?
I'd say that I enjoy when people get aroused by my pictures and videos. That's extremely exciting for me.
I answered "always" for this as any time I deliberately dress up and get messy or take a fully clothed bath, it's for arousal purposes, but after I'd submitted the vote I realised that's not the whole picture, as during outdoor shoots I'll either get covered in mud or soaking wet, or both, but of course anything sexual in those circumstances would be unacceptable, so even if some reaction happens it's ignored, and in fact after all these years of shooting I can now wade into water, or sit and slither about in mud, in a boilersuit and wellies, and just enjoy the sensations on an entirely non-sexual level. Now that we tend to shoot two or three mud scenes on location back to back, usually by the end of the third one I'll be totally coated in semi-liquid mud from the chest down, my overalls and the leotard I'm wearing under them completely muddy and soaking wet, just hands, shoulders, and head clean, and the amusing thought has occurred that were I doing it for pleasure, alone or with Lady Jasmine, and somewhere rather more secluded than our usual location, I could probably have an almighty squirt if I wanted to - but instead the focus is totally on getting good footage, and then getting the girls cleaned up and warmed up, and back to base for a nice hot meal.
I also sometimes do photopgraphy where I'll go to a beauty spot where everyone else shoots views say of a river from a bridge, or of a bridge at an angle from the bank - I'll find a way down to the water, wade in, and shoot the bridge while standing waist or chest deep in the middle of the river, so as to get a view no-one else has, and that only someone who doesn't mind getting their clothes wet would think of taking. Again, as these tend to be very public locations, all thought of anything sexual is banished. The attached photo is an ancient and narrow stone bridge in a town in North Wales. I was literally chest-deep in the middle of the river, dressed in a boilersuit and wellies, when I took that shot.
Since my time as a teenager (far before the Internet) I liked to step into deep puddles or small streams with my sneakers on or take a swim with my t-shirt on. I definetly liked it and it gave me a boner -- do not know why. Since then I experimented and the strong connection between wet/muddy or gungey clothes stayed, also watching others. And at the same time the sensual part is present: stomping through sloppy mud, feeling the slick and sloppy pants, bubbles tickling at the right places, the heaviness of a wet leather jeacket, gunge engulfing me.... Hmm, writing this it seems to be sensual as well as the stuff happening in my brains, be it erotic and also perhaps a touch of empowerment: having the courage to do the extraordinary.
midwestmess said: That's an interesting perspective, but unfortunately it's 100% sexual for me. It's tough because I want to be more artistic about my messes and go for more quality sessions. The reality is that I just get so aroused at a new wam idea and when the time comes I just impulsively make it happen.
I'd definitely like to put more thought into it and make my messes a truly enjoyable experience, instead of dealing with the crazy aftermath. Maybe I'll try scaling down, lighting some candles, get in front of a mirror and just relax covered in some nicely textured mess
Raindancer said: I realised this two days ago when I was in the mud in 2 layers of rainwear. I always thought that the WAMming itself wasn't sexual per se, in the sense of getting an erection etc, but that the excitement comes later when I think back on it and see the pics etc. But now I realise it is sexual, in a different way. How the mud hugs your full body, and your clothes become heavy, it's a whole different kind of arousal that I never experience outside of mud. A kind of arousal that's not focused on genitals, but is sort of spread all over the body. It's not like masturbating, it's a thing on its own. I was sighing and shivering with pleasure.
This happens a lot to me as well when I'm alone in mud