If someone who you would NOT want to find out about you being into getting messy found out that you were somehow into it, what would you do? If you would say or do something?
I.E. people like family members, boss or partner who you haven't told. . .
Twenty years ago I'd probably have collapsed in a puddle of embarrassment and angst, but now - while it could no doubt be a little awkward, particularly with a family member - I think I'd largely be unconcerned. Ultimately it's none of their business.
Also, if (god forbid) I ever found myself single and dating again, I'd tell any partner very early on (rather than wait literal years like I did with Mrs Piechap) so hopefully that particular scenario wouldn't arise.
Madzy1 said: If someone who you would NOT want to find out about you being into getting messy found out that you were somehow into it, what would you do? If you would say or do something?
I.E. people like family members, boss or partner who you haven't told. . .
I'd tell him everyone has a fetish(es) and treat it as such. I wouldn't make it out to be like I'm into something bad, I'd acknowledge it and if they wanted to ask me about it I'm all ears.
Madzy1 said: If someone who you would NOT want to find out about you being into getting messy found out that you were somehow into it, what would you do? If you would say or do something?
I.E. people like family members, boss or partner who you haven't told. . .