I've been wondering lately as got a few friends who do modelling but also some friends who I know I've brought up WAM & some not but would like to get them messy, they have also spoken how they would like to get me messy too.
Only problems is hiring a studio that may not mind too much doing WAM stuff, as I prefer clothed WAM how will each person potentially take getting their most likely smart attire & heels messy. As they are doing shoots which would say end up on here & so forth, got to factor in what costs for them & that.
Obviously as it is sort of going professional in style and also sort of encourages me to do more WAM behind & potentially in front of the camera, what are sort of the best ways to break it down to them if I do consider doing this just to even dip my door as it were. As know for like Mostwam especially lately they have had a lot of new folk and other places get new folk in even if it's just 1 & done, sort of gives me an idea if realistically can do it too.
My biggest piece of advice is to be very specific as to your boundaries and their boundaries and what the person is willing and unwilling to do. You don't need to cover absolutely every possible scenario, but it's important your model friend doesn't go into a scene expecting innocent fun and realizing there might be ulterior motives.
For example, a friend of mine was fine with getting pied in any variety. No concerns there, basically gave blanket license to throw any "normal" type of pie. But savory foods were off the table (her call up front, and I don't have an interest in them anyway so no big deal). Wardrobe was also limited based on her level of comfort. For us, it was a natural conversation..."here's what I'm interested in, is there anything you feel especially interested or not interested in doing"
If you're looking to sell things here as a professional product, they should know that. Have them browse the site. If there are specific producers you're looking to emulate, sharing some of their sample products would also be helpful. And if you're going to sell content, I'd advise framing everything as professionally as possible. Yes, you might have a personal interest, but you're becoming their producer now. You're looking at the market and how to meet the demands of that market (similar to the producers you're emulating). You might have an interest in the content you're producing of course, but you're also putting on that professional hat and saying, "Ok, I'm making X decision for Y reason."
Just hypothetically..."If you're comfortable, we'll do a slime-focused bikini scene. Here's a sense of a script we might follow. We'll do a slime with X ingredients and then X number of pies in the face. As you can see from this producer sample, that's pretty normal for this type of content."
That's just my sense of having done this with friends before. I have never sold/released anything, but being honest with what you're in for is a big step. Depends of course on the model, your/their personality, and so on, but I've had friends like "I wear a bikini to public pools and like my figure. So long as they're edible, it sounds rad. Pie/slime me all you want, just don't make a move." Others are like "Yeah, I'd try ONE pie in the face," but they have to wear old clothes. And others still say "No, that doesn't sound fun," or, "Pies sound like a blast but slime sounds GROSS" and it's dropped.
Of course, I'll defer to the pros on the nuances of producing professional content.
First, and absolute cast iron rule - be absolutely and totally honest. Whenever we bring someone new aboard I always tell them some version of "this is fetish content, the customers buy it for arousal purposes, it's also my own personal fetish." Make absolutely clear that people buying the content will be wanking to it, and so will you, afterwards (but never during a shoot - my own rule is that I'll never "enjoy" a model's work while they are on the premises, the only exception being Lady Jasmine as we're also partners). And as @JazzTalker says, make sure everyone is very specific abouit boundaries, and never go past them.
As to outfits, we supply everything our people wear to get messy in, including underwear and footwear. If someone volunteers to wear their own clothes then that's fine (and we pay a little extra when our models do it) but make absolutelty sure the other person is fully aware of what will be happening to their outfit and the possibility of pernament staining, or dairy smells that won't wash out. It's weird what won't wash, of all things, the one item we could never get the sour custard smell out of again was a plastic waterproof coat, something you'd think would be immune. TBH for me half the fun of being a producer is being able to go shopping for fabulous outfits to mess our girls up in.
The first rule of fetish is "informed consent is everything", so make sure everyone is fully informed in full detail what's going to happen, and why, and that they fully consent to it. Once that's in place, you can do pretty much whatever you like, within what's been agreed.
DungeonMasterOne said: First, and absolute cast iron rule - be absolutely and totally honest. Whenever we bring someone new aboard I always tell them some version of "this is fetish content, the customers buy it for arousal purposes, it's also my own personal fetish." Make absolutely clear that people buying the content will be wanking to it, and so will you, afterwards (but never during a shoot - my own rule is that I'll never "enjoy" a model's work while they are on the premises, the only exception being Lady Jasmine as we're also partners). And as @JazzTalker says, make sure everyone is very specific abouit boundaries, and never go past them.
As to outfits, we supply everything our people wear to get messy in, including underwear and footwear. If someone volunteers to wear their own clothes then that's fine (and we pay a little extra when our models do it) but make absolutelty sure the other person is fully aware of what will be happening to their outfit and the possibility of pernament staining, or dairy smells that won't wash out. It's weird what won't wash, of all things, the one item we could never get the sour custard smell out of again was a plastic waterproof coat, something you'd think would be immune. TBH for me half the fun of being a producer is being able to go shopping for fabulous outfits to mess our girls up in.
The first rule of fetish is "informed consent is everything", so make sure everyone is fully informed in full detail what's going to happen, and why, and that they fully consent to it. Once that's in place, you can do pretty much whatever you like, within what's been agreed.
Cheers for this folks. I would be honest from start as only fair with them as don't want them feeling uncomfortable about what they are going to do.
In regards to clothing I'd probably give them the option if wish to wear own clothes and shoes, but giving them clothing and shoes which they don't have to worry about is probably best.
I'll get my thinking cap on and see how best to approach with everyone and go from there.