If the OP really did feel this way, surely a better approach would have been to voice these concerns off-board to Messmaster and ask him for the best course of action.

Yes, all of this. And it's not limited specifically to WAM. Stand wherever you want to politically, but in the US at least, there's a whole national conversation about what is/isn't appropriate to say to someone no matter what your intentions. Some folks will just make awkward mistakes. Others aren't capable of 1) realizing they've crossed the line or 2) caring. That doesn't mean we excuse the behavior, just that we can't shame everyone remotely associated with the conversation.

Careful,guys! We don't want his legal team posting here again!

What a virtous twat! As if he made a startling discovery, yet contacts You Tubers who make unwitting WAM content.

LOL!! Is that what THIS was?

https://umd.net/forums/cease-and-desist--estate-of-michfan2017

Seriously, dude should have checked out Messy Minds. Like there aren't enough people here dealing with emotional baggage over their kinks. Fuck knows I was one of them.

People, if you ain't hurting anyone, don't be ashamed of who and what you are. Life is WAY too fucking short.

The link leads to a deleted thread--what am I missing?

Dude came back pretending to be someone else, pissed we were talking about him and his bullshit. I told you guys he'd be back once he needed some more wank material

I wonder if this is Ant being a little prick a saurus maximus. I looked up Frank Nietti and came up with nothing. Now I'm going back to viewing Kpop music videos on Youtube. Those BlackPink and Red Velvet chicks are pretty cute. Oh, and I'm not going to post any weird comments btw........ Of course now we know the 2 individuals in question, I wonder if someone should ask if this "friendship" actually exist. I'm 99.999999999% sure it doesn't.

Damn should have left up that cease and desist message so we could have more ammo to mock the pathetic little prick about. I doubt his friendship with the youtubers will go anywhere. I remember watching the reactions of celebrities at roasts and various other events when people said that they wanked to them. It was unflattering. But hey he apologized for all that anonymous wanking so it makes it better right.........

I'm of the opinion this thread while amusing at first has long served its purpose for someone (op) who isn't here officially but just lurking. I think that feeding the trolls only gives them validation.
I mean there are points to having threads just as general reminders once in awhile but keeping this person post going I don't know just feels counterproductive

As someone how is not interested in wam as a sexual act but still on umd I find this kinda confusing.

I've learned anything I do is a fetish for someone, literally anything. I've had people offer to buy videos of me shaving my legs before. I don't think it's bad to have this questions. I'm not offended by people being sexually interested in me if they're nice and respectful and I found most are.

I do wam for fun and because it reminds me of my childhood. I like being careless and dirty and if people find it sexy I do it I'm not going to ask for an apology.

Totally agree!!