I would like to nominate Kelsey Rose as my official WAMbassador. Everything Kelsey said on both replies is exactly what I came to say, just reread her posts over and over again with my voice in your head.
Being sex positive is a complex advocacy, because sex is not shameful but it's a physical risk if your partner doesn't respect your right to consent. I've learned some tragic life lessons from this the hard way. The need for respect to consent is above and beyond the main focus of positive sex experiences. Reading a user's profile usually gives you all the info you need about how to approach them. Respecting that should be easy.
Another thing I do want to add is that there are a lot of people out there who are still discovering their sexuality, this is for some a continuous journey that should be given the space to decide how they want to travel on that journey. There are more and more people out there interested in WAM, but they are still shy about it, so overwhelming them can make a bad impression. That being said, I feel confident in our community that there are more awesome people here than un-awesome
I am just gonna come out and say it. We all need to see Kelsey in a slime tank. Maybe that will bring peace to the middle east. Maybe it will have guys on here cumming so hard they won't be annoying.