#1 rule of the UMD is "Don't get attached"; We have more than enough threads starting with "Whatever happened to _____" to warrant its own UMD Group. Hell, maybe we have a serial killer - god knows we shop at all the same stores.
she was always so sweet. she came to my aid in 2002 when I had was homeless and out of work (2022, was a hard year) she came to my aid so I could be less stressed about no work and no home for a the months. she was an angel. where ever she is, I hope she is happy, safe and doing well.
The last she was around, she said her vanilla job was taking up a lot of her time. Doesn't necessarily mean she's gone for good. It's possible she deactivated (not deleted) her page just to keep a low profile for a while.
If she truly did decide to leave, nothing anyone can do about that and I wish her the best.