For me, the way the scene plays out matters more to me than the fact that it's co-ed. To me, wam has always been about the fun of getting messy and playing around in your mess of choice (and the more erotic and naughty activities of course), so everyone having fun and getting in on it is of the utmost importance. I rarely enjoy wam content that's one-sided, especially if it's playing into the humiliation theme. But to each their own.