It was amazing. I have been trying to get a girl to pie me for 20 years I'm 32 now. She initially agreed to come over and dominate me for the most part, she was going to pie me 10 times, and empty a syrup on me afterwards and initially agreed to take 3 pies minimum(more if she likes it she said).

We exchanged the first 2 pies she pied me first and definitely had fun hitting me with the first pie. I asked if she was ready for her first pie next and she said yea, so I made the most out of it by smashing it in her face and then giving her a pie hat with the rest of the pie. She got super into it and we went pie for pie after that and finished each other off with some syrup.

It was legit one of my favorite experiences ever, and she has agreed to come back and get slimed. I strongly recommend asking people to pie/splosh you if you haven't started doing so already. I was so nervous asking people before. I really only have been asking potential partners for about a year now if they would like to try it. It was definitely worth the ask though, loosing my wam virginity was definitely better than losing my regular virginity.

You're very lucky. Although universally going for it and directly asking about a messy session might not be the best course of action for everyone's situation.

May I ask what led to this? How close was this person to you before you brought up WAM?

I started talking to her on a fetish dating site called fetlife. She is a dom, she saw my page and followed me, so I followed her back and messaged her initially about just pieng me. She seemed to be into the idea and agreed to get a little messy that day. After a few weeks of just talking back and forth she had me pick her up yesterday. We met yesterday got messy and had sex a couple of times. She was a trooper taking her pies, she laughed the whole time and talked about how unique it felt, we totally covered each other and then played in the tub a bit after that. I'm shocked how messy she got for me being a dom. But I agree, ngl I brought up wam to about 30 girls on the fetlife site, and maybe 10-15 or so were curious and hit me back we talked a bit and then they chicken out, roughly half didn't respond, 1 kink shamed me even though it's a kink site, and 1 came through and got messy so far. So it's not a guarantee bringing it up will 100 percent guarantee it. I definitely lucked out. But I can definitely guarantee it ups the chances of getting sploshed or pied significantly. I was hoping one of my exes would just see the porn on my computer before and hit me with a surprise pie before this but it never happened. At this point once I'm comfortable with girls on a vanilla dating I'm gonna bring it up when we discuss kinks, and the girls on the fetish sites I usually just list my kinks right off the bat and include it now. I'm definitely going to stop hiding it moving forward though.

The entire umd right now

https://youtu.be/m8NAlDOCG6g

Congratulations

Thanks it was a dope experience. She even says she will come get slimed if I order some slime for us.

Dude congratulations nicely done there, the rush of happy endorphins flowing through us is so unreal isn't it? Especially during the first wam experience with a partner as you break new ground.

Thanks dude. And yea it was wild for both of us. It was her first time ever getting messy and I have only had solo sessions before that. It feels very different having someone in control of wear the pies go, compared to pieng myself. And it was alot of fun playing around in the mess afterwards and cleaning up together. It was definitely the most interesting shower I ever had in my life.

Nice one mate!
Glad to hear your partner also had a lot of fun getting messy too.

I'll certainly second the point about being open and honest about one's kinks and fantasies. Gunge isn't my partner's "thing" as such, but she still thoroughly enjoyed the enhanced sensations messy play brings to the bedroom. In her words 'This stuff is fucking magic!'

(even if messy was on my partner's "no-way-no-how" list, I'd still be open about it and just enjoy it solo. Saves the worry about keeping it hidden then eventually facing the awkward questions about why I'm so good at cleaning and explaining inflatable pool and wedding dresses stuffed in my wardrobe)

Thanks dude. And she definitely had fun, I think even more than she may admit. She already hit me up about coming by to get messy again. She says I have to use less syrup next time though(we split 6lbs the 1st time) and she says it still coming out of her ears here and there. I'm cool with that though, I'm hyped she is actually asking for more now. I thought it may be like a once or twice thing with her. But with how she was talking today, I think it may be her new thing.

Awesome! Always great to finally WAM with a partner, so happy she had a great time! I hope this becomes a fun experience the both of you can continue to share! Plus, it's always awesome to introduce new people to the experience, hope she continues to WAM! Hope you have many more messes in the future!

Congrats! Hopefully you took some pics! I've said for years that being forward about this fetish and not being all weird about it is the best approach. How many times have we seen a forum post from some dude trying to figure out how to bring this up to his wife or girlfriend. Or some single guy trying to meet someone that will satisfy his kink, but can't figure out how to bring it up. When I was single (in a galaxy far far away), whenever a relationship would progress to where it was sexual, I would always steer the conversation to sexual likes and dislikes. Many times I would luck out and she would initiate the topic. This is when you bring this up and you can't be a pussy about it either. Kinda have just own it, be able to laugh about it, and make it sound fun, funny and erotic. Out of a half a dozen women I've brought up my fetish to. 4 have enjoyed getting messy with me (including my wife) and 1 said it sounded interesting (but we never made it happen) and the other one said she didn't think she could do something like that (she was pretty high maintenance and full of herself anyway). Anyways...congrats again and ignore the shamers on Fetlife...isn't it weird that there are people like that on there? And in our experience it's always the ones that have a morally questionable fetish....we've had it happen a few times too.

Thank you. It was super fun for sure. I think she likes it almost as much as I do at this point. She initially said she would come back to get slimed when I asked her if she would get messy again. Now about 3 days later she hit me up telling me her own wam fantasy. We were trying to get shrooms the last time, to trip and get messy but we couldn't find any. She brung up a totally different scenario from the sliming, and said we should take shrooms next time and make the pies different colors with food coloring, and have a huge pie fight with each other. That sounds mad fun playing with all the different colored slop. I'm definitely down to try it out. She definitely seems to have her own wam kink at this point, she is not just helping me with mine. I can't wait to have another pie fight with her and dump a bucket of slime on her though.

Thanks, I did not get pics of the 1st experience unfortunately, we planned on taking them but got too messy too fast and neither of us wanted to get the phone covered in the mess. I'm going to have her take pics pieng me next time at least(I'm not sure how game she is to have pics taken of her) but I definitely don't mind it. And yea about half of the girls I talked to are curious about it, or say they would be down with playing with whipped cream and chocolate at least or have already. It's definitely more accepted than I thought before I started asking people. My ex saw messygirl porn on my old laptop before, and her jaw just kinda dropped, she didn't roast me or break up with me, we dated years after that. I just never had asked her what she thinks about it cause I was nervous, she probably would have tried it to. And yea getting kink shamed on fetlife is weird. I know my kink is mild now cause of fetlife.

You should try putting the phone in a small sandwich bag, then you'll be able to use it without fear of getting the mess on the phone.

We have taken video of only a couple of our messy sessions. I just set it up out of the way on a tripod (they make them for phones) and just press record before we start. If we want pics, we just take screen grabs from the video. I know a few on here do the same thing. Works out pretty good, you don't get the camera messy and yet capture the whole experience to share with family and friends (just kidding). My profile pic is a screen grab from a video of the Mrs and I.

Both are solid ideas. I have a tripod somewhere. If I can't find it I definitely have a sandwich bag to put the phone in.

I cannot recommend earplugs enough. Buy them at Walmart or target if something.

Lol she pied me in the ear so hard yesterday, I'm still getting dried chunks of caramel and chocolate out of my ear. I feel you on the earplugs probably being a good idea.

This^^ big time. I've mentioned it before in the forums but I got a bean in my ear one time and it was scary af. Luckily got it out but was genuinely concerned I'd have to go to the doctor or er

It is my main source of anxiety with this fetish. Because anything that gets in the ear canal is immediately difficult to get out without some form or suction (which I wouldn't even know how to do safely). So I'm stuck using Q-tips which sometimes just push stuff further in.

One of my favorite types of messes to do now is making a head-submersion box. Essentially a cardboard box with a trash bag liner but I cut out a hole in the bottom of the bag, pull it over my head, rubber band it around my neck to seal it, then have my wife just dump pies and slimes and marshmallow cream and honey and applesauce, etc until my head is completely underneath and surrounded by mess. I use a swimming snorkel to still be able to breathe, but I use the ear plugs for my ears AND nose nostrils. It's awesome.

I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS! She sounds so incredibly fun and awesome! I hope she continues to explore getting messy and having fun, looking forward to hearing your shroom experiences! I've definitely had my fun with getting super out of my mind and feeling the sensations of covering my body in substances, it's quite the amazing experience! Be safe and stay messy!

We tripped and got messy again Saturday. I covered the bed with beach towels, and prepped 6 pies out in the bathroom, all large pies with chocolate and caramel in them. Right as we started to peak she sat facing me, I covered her feet in nutella and she used her messy feet to coat my head, chest and dick, she mad a full mess of me with just her feet. Then she leaned forward and let me shampoo her with the rest of the nutella. We played I'm the nutella in bed for a solid hr before going and having a pie fight and then took our time playing in the slop then to. She is big into the fetish at this point we have sploshed 3 weeks in a row and tripped 2 weeks in a row. I am having alot of fun showing her how all the different substances feel. The pies and nutella seem to be her favorite so far. And I love that.

That's absolutely fantastic. There's nothing quite like being with someone who understands it and gets propetly into it. Enjoying something shared really is magic. Go both of you!

Thanks dude. Yea she has been really getting into it. She never tried wam until 3 weeks ago and has got messy 3 times now. Twice she was totally covered for the most part. I can't tell if she likes to give or receive more yet. She says she is a dom. But her face lights up when I shampoo her with slop. She takes her pies like a champ, and she gets me pretty good with them also. I'm still getting chocolate out of my ear days later. It's definitely been fun getting messy with her. Hopefully it will stay a weekly thing or become more than that.