Hey everyone! I've seen quite a few videos in here of guys inviting straight guys to get messy with them, I wonder, how would you ask that to someone? I've been thinking on telling to my male best friend about this kink, and maybe asking him if he would like to try it with me sometime but idk how to, any tips?
Probably not the best plan, Best to find someone who is really into it. Better experience. Those who are not, usually just stand there and are underwhelming to play with. An exception would be if he is gay and into you. He might do to please you.
most guys like to get messy especially if it seems fun and "normal." Obviously asking a straight guy to get sexual with you when you are getting messy is out of the question. I've had about 8 or so friends not on wam sites get messy with me. One time I surprised one at a birthday of his and he had a blast and got messy numerous other times after that. Anyone is welcome to reach out to talk more about it with me. Its not that hard really.
It really depends who and what the dynamic is going to be. A close friend who you've known for a while and who you'd feel ok sharing your fetish with in the first place might be ok, but you might well have to reassure them there would be no sexual element, likely they'd have to have some motivation for messing you such as finding it funny. A good idea would be to reverse the situation: what would be your response if a friend suggested participating in something they found sexy but was absolutely not a turn-on for you? Would you agree?
As with most things, honesty is the best policy. I would not reccomend setting up a situation where the session is pitched as just a bit of fun or a dare or something and then have other people realise it's something more for you and they have been led into it. Bear in mind that with all the considerations just mentioned it might not really be any easier than trying to arrange a meetup with someone on here.
It helps is people roughly know where you live. I am 80% straight, and 20% gay tollerance and often look for people in the Netherlands that are into muddin and swamp exploring.
I have a little chat with them via PM. and sometimes I eventually meet up. I done this a few times and had great times. little bit of wrestling, role playing, getting cought up by suprise, being pushed into mud. It was really fun and cool.
Just havnt been uploading video's and pictures about it. If your in NL then surely I like to do a bit of chatting and then perhaps get messy.
Love you, too
