Hey guys - I'm in Nebraska. 29 and muscular here. I've been into mud play and gunge, and other messy play, for a very long time now.

What are the best sites for gay gunge and mud videos? (name your top 2 or 3). But most importantly, I'm having an extremely hard time finding others in my area to gunge with. I'm willing to travel. What's the best way to find others?

This UMD site seems a little unorganized and chaotic. Isn't there a way to search for other "gungers" in a particular city? somehow?

Is there anyway to filter out the GUYS from the GIRLS on this website?? It seems very complicated and hard to navigate. Thanks guys for all your help.

I just received a private message saying that filling out my profile on here is a good start.........however, is there anyway to find guys in a particular area instead of going through each profile one-by-one and just hoping to get lucky?! Seems very inconvenient.

For example I love the website Take Down Wrestling. I simply log on there whenever I travel and I can see other wrestlers in that particular city. It's very simple. Isn't there a site like that for messy dudes?

You are certainly onto something good with starting here... the profile thing, reaching out on a forum.... that's really how you meet up.. and being charismatic but not creepy helps too haha..

In terms of the organization... I mean.... 17 years ago or whenever this place was made it was a downright mess... but this is our home to talk about this stuff... to interact.. to find like minded creatures and there was a time where this was virtually the ONLY place. We all roam free here and unfortunately there is no direct filter for the searches you want to do like organizing from men and women and locations etc. Its not facebook... thank gawd....... so you won't be able to do a lot of different things just yet... BUT that said the more people like yourself that stick to it and follow this page...... the faster we will be running a more modernized site that can possibly do what you would like to do......

You have to keep in mind that this is not a site run by fancy CEOs with shit tons of money and whatever... its run by a small crew who dedicate a lot of personal time to this and as time goes by you will notice little things improve and with time it will as I said get more drastic.

As far as resources it really depends on what you want to see...... videos that you don't need to purchase you can seek out on XTube but have a good virus filter.... I LOVE AbsPecsPies but that's a purchase site.. if you're looking for great pics and connections to other places I would stay around here for a while.. read a few posts on the forum.... talk to some people.. check out profiles...... you will get linked into some really great shit... TRUST ME!!! If you like mud YouTube amazingly has some good videos as does XTube and some other porn sites do too but you have to really search....

Long and short... best advice... stick around..... you will get messy and you will find lots of good people and good material....

You can search the "people" section for just about anything (I search "fl" and "florida" and "orlando" and other nearby cities every month or so to see if anyone new has popped up) but the issue is this:
You've made no effort to fill out your profile. If you click through a couple threads here and look at posters' names on the left, you'll see a disproportionately high number of them are blank, meaning they couldn't be bothered to fill out their profile, either. In an environment that exists basically 100% on user-generated/submitted content, not completing so much as a basic profile (you don't even have to say "Omaha," you can just say "eastern Nebraska" and we can assume you live in either Omaha or Lincoln) means no one else can find you.
So by way of example,
http://umd.net/people/search_submitted/1/search_type/people/keywords/nebraska

I can see that there are 4 users who have indicated that they live in Nebraska. Who knows how many others there are, because out of over 65,000 user accounts here, so many haven't bothered to put anything in their profile; on the 'browse all users' page which shows the most recent additions, there are 250 accounts listed on the first page. Of these 250, only 19 have indicated a geographic location. These range from as specific as "London N20" (a postal code which is probably on the order of a square mile) and "Sunman, Indiana" to "USA," "Europe," and "Australia." That's a 7.5% participation rate.

If I were you, I'd put in my profile that I live in NE, that I'm gay, and that I like mud and dessert WAM. If anybody wants to find you they can PM you. Since location (or sex, even) isn't a required field, there's not much more you can do. But even on Facebook, you can lie and say you're from Antarctica or Uzbekistan, and there's nothing anybody can do about it.

As was stated previously, add stuff to your profile. Your likes, dislikes, pictures, comments, location (even basic info) anything and everything helps. Post in the forum, add something to the classifieds. Spend some time searching around other people's profiles. Find a profile that matches your likes and search through their friends. Best of luck and welcome aboard.:splat: